zagafi said:
And what scientific survey are you basing this ridiculous notion on, pray tell? Have you surveyed each family with the extra "lifestyle choice" child on their annual income and ascertained exactly how much disposable income each has and how they choose to spend it on vacation?
Absurd. Why you've co-opted a simple vent into some rant about larger families and their spending habits (which you know nada about--you're merely conjecturing) is beyond me.
Okay, I don't know why I'm even continuing with this debate. Since it makes sense to me but obviously isn't to a lot of others, I doubt I'll do any better, but here goes...
The original comparison was, if I'm correct, addressing two family situations. I'll try to make this one about one family, if that makes things any easier. Say, for instance, a family has one child. Then, they find out they're having twins. Same income, different number of children. So, two different scenarios:
*Family makes $50,000/year and has one child.
*Family makes $50,000/year and has three children.
Expenses per child (including college savings, day care, clothing, etc.) add to $100/month.
Therefore, it would make sense that:
When they have one child, Family spends $1,200/year on child-related expenses.
Once the twins come along, Family spends $3,600/year on child-related expenses.
Assuming that the only change in the family dynamic was the number of children, the Family needs to cut their spending in other areas of their budget to compensate for the difference ($2,400) for the additional children.
Overly simplistic, yes, but that's the premise on which I'm basing my thinking.