Yes to the bolded! This year we are working around Disney's 'growing pains' by focusing on our favourites in each park, along with venturing off Disney property to explore other Florida attractions, and we'll enjoy some beach time as well.
We need our annual Disney fix, so this is the way we will roll until the dust settles.
I love the way you worded this. We, too, just got back from a 2-week trip to Disney (January 20-February 6). It was just my teenage son and myself. We've gone before a couple of times in January. Like many others, I too was surprised by the crowds at times. We felt in our case it was due to many tour groups...South American, dance team and cheerleaders. At different times during the 2 weeks there were several tour groups around. Combine this with many the many closures stated...much at DHS, Soarin' at Epcot, and the construction at AK...at times the crowds were definitely quite noticable.
However...I am one of those "Disney diehards"....and we are already planning a return trip to get 2 trips out of our annual passes. Most likely next January...tour groups and all. Some of the 'growing pains' we experienced was my own lack of savvy with FP+. I made the mistake of making way too many early ones when they weren't needed, especially as the trip went on and my teenage son started sleeping in later and later. We found for us a better strategy was to get a later start to our day, use FP in the afternoon, then stay at late as possible and even park hop to evening EMH. That's just how my teenage son wanted to do stuff and it made for us a much better trip.
Overall, we had a great time. Even with the additional crowds. The only incidents we had were one trip on a bus from Pop to Animal Kingdom...when we got in the queue at Pop the line was full of a tour group of girls. We got in the back of the line. Shortly after, another group came (same tour group, just 2 large groups full). We were smack dab in the middle. We should have waited for another bus but it was just a short trip to Animal Kingdom...or so we thought. Ended up they were all going to Blizzard Beach. The only other people on the bus was a young couple with a little girl about 3 years old. The girls got on the bus and one proceeded to take out her iphone, and plug in an external speaker. And not of of those little portable ones...this one was huge, about the size of a dinner plate. She cranked up some music really, really loud. And they all sang (i.e., shouted) then entire way. I felt really bad for the family with the little girl. She had her face hidden in her parents lap and they were covering her ears with their hands. Once they all got off at Blizzard Beach, the bus driver turned around with a sheepish look on his face, "It's a lot quieter now, isn't it?" I was quite surprised that the bus driver didn't say anything. I don't like the "What can we do?" attitude. I think when an external speaker is plugged in and music is blasted that loud...it is the bus driver's place to say something.
The only other really negative incident was on our last day. For our very last ride, my son wanted to ride Space Mountain. This was on a Friday night EMH. The app stated a 30 minute wait time. When we got to the attraction, it also stated a 30 minute wait time. This was at 11 pm. So we got into line. About 5 minutes or so in line, all of a sudden up the FP side comes a huge group of cheerleaders (and their families). Then another. And another. And another. And another. They just kept coming. I stopped counting at 200. At this point we'd been in line now about 20 minutes. The stand-by line was now at a standstill. Our only option would have been to get out of the line and skip the ride, but it was our last ride, and now the park was only open for another 30 minutes. So we decided to wait it out. It ended up being a 75 minute wait. I felt so bad for people with little kids in the line, who decided 30 minutes was worth it, but never would have gotten in line if it had stated 75. Huge fail there with the FP+. I don't know what the answer is when huge tour groups come through like that.
And on a side note...I thought that the parks were very clean. I even remarked to my son how clean all the parks were and how hard the castmembers work at it. But... on that last day, Friday, the amount of garbage all over was astounding. It is the only time I have ever seen garbage literally strewn on the Haunted Mansion ride. Water bottles, soda bottles, food wrappers, etc. all over the ground on the ride. In line at Space Mountain we saw a huge mound of food containers just piled in a corner in the line and left there. We saw water bottles all over the ground in the queue. On the ride itself in the car we found an empty chapstick container and some hair bands. On Pirates of the Caribbean we found empty popcorn tubs in the boat. It was just so weird because at no other time did we encounter any garbage or trash and on this day it just seemed to be everywhere.
But with all that said...castmembers were great, we had a lot of fun, and we will be back. It's my "happy place" and it's a place where I can vacation relatively easily and safely when it's just me and my kid (DH doesn't like Disney).