I think the maid leaving the stuff outside the door happened at POR during a different visit and the OP was noting it as a nice thing for the maid to have done. I took her point to be that if that kind of service can be accomplished at a moderate, you should expect a little more from a deluxe.
(zipping up my flame proof suit now...... ) The lack of maid service wasn't one day after the storm, it was FOUR days after the storm and still no maid service. How can you defend that?
Honestly, I think the staff should be commended (by their employer) for coming in during a storm, but somehow by showing up they were supposed to be allowed to behave badly toward guests and "take their frustrations" out on them? I think not. I worked at a nursing home during the blizzard of 1978. The national guard picked me up at my house and drove me to work, where I stayed for the whole week. I was 17 and worked 80 hours that week, sleeping in one of the rooms at the nursing home. I did not take it out on the customers (patients), although I admit I will never drink powdered milk again if it's the last liquid on earth. What I remember more than anything else was that the owner paid me $1 more an hour for that time (I didn't know he was going to do that), and it was the biggest paycheck I'd ever seen!!
In any service industry, one of the first things you learn is: you are not allowed to vent, be P.O'd, be surly, cop an attitude, or anything else, ever, in front of a customer. Period. You are allowed to "walk it up the line", (i.e., excuse me sir, but I'll have to call my manager now), but that is about it. Maybe this basic lesson has been overlooked by the management at AKL.
To the OP: I'm glad you maintained perspective (what a concept) and did not let the annoyances ruin your vacation. I am enjoying reading your Trip report on the other board.