denise
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Well, one comes out of the hospital, and one goes in...
So glad to hear that your Dad can go home tonight.I know it's a big relief for everyone.
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DH's Dad is planning to take DH's Mom to the hospital this morning. It does not look good. She's been very ill for over five years due to emphysema. For several months, she's eaten barely enough to keep going. However, for the last two weeks she's refused to eat and just in the last couple of days refuses to drink anything. She is very strong willed and has an amazing capacity for pain, but she is now severely dehydrated. She is deathly afraid of hospitals - to the point that she refused to be transported to a hospital for two full days after falling and breaking her hip last January! So, we aren't completely convinced that DH's Dad will actually be able to get her to the hospital today, and if he does, we're afraid she will probably refuse treatment.We could use a prayer or two that she will allow IV hydration today. We feel that if she can get rehydrated, she may perk back up. Her heart is strong, it's just this eating and drinking issue that is causing her decline right now. Unfortunately, they live half-way across the U.S. from us, so we can't easily get there to support DH's Dad through all of this. Fortunately, though, we flew there two weekends ago just to visit with them. As you can imagine, so many thoughts are running through my head right now. Thanks for letting me share.
Oh Deb....Having just gone thru this I know how you feel. My mom wanted nothing to do with the nursing home but she needed care 24 hours a day. At the end she kept asking to go back to the hospital. When she did go back she refused meds and food and was gone within 24 hours. I was lucky we had a nice visit two days earlier. She was at peace with dying and told me the month before she was ready to join my Dad. Still a hard thing to go thru when you have such a big trip ahead and it's your Mom.
I will pray for her and your family.
denise