My self -care was initiated by my daughter. My birthday was yesterday and on Sunday she wanted me to go to the barn to help her give the owners dog medicine and unbeknownst to me she set up for me to have a horseback riding lesson. I love riding and really miss it but cant afford to ride when paying for DD to do what she loves. She has been planning it since January. Every time that she had me go feed with her on the weekends I was getting volunteer hours. I was only helping to help I had no clue I was getting volunteer hours. I complained many times about going because it was at 8 pm and I was ready to rest for the rest of the night. But I would go to help DD. DH on Sunday got a pair of my jeans for DD to put in the car. When we got to the barn I noticed that the owner was home (she wasn't supposed to be with what DD was telling me). I was still clueless at this point. She had me go in the barn and then she told. I was so surprised. I loved every minute of riding and I haven't lost everything from the lessons I took over 20 years ago. So now the owner and DD have talked me into going to a show and doing the class Gen Gap (2 riders but need to be a certain age difference between them). So in September I will be showing. This was the best birthday gift and so thoughtful. I am surprised they were all able to keep it a secret for so long.
So the ride prompted me to not do a whole lot yesterday. I was/am so sore. It is a good workout.