Despite being from Arkansas, I've never watched this show and know next to nothing about this family. But, all that said, I think this might be an interesting chance to get some information out there about what kind of struggles extremely premature babies and their families endure. So many people just think...oh, she's little but she'll grow....often, it is sooooo much more involved than that. People have no idea. I had my son at 26 weeks. I can't tell you how many clueless people said stupid things like how "lucky" I was to not ever have to deal with the last months of pregnancy, or similar idiotic stuff. I had pre-eclampsia and very nearly died myself. My baby almost died. But, hey, at least I didn't have to be uncomfortable in the summer time heat!
My son weighed one pound and seven ounces at birth. He spent 93 in the NICU (the first 40 days on a ventilator) before coming home weighing 3 pounds and 14 ounces. It was the scariest three months of my life. We had to move two hours away from home to basically live in hospital provided housing so we could be with him day and night. When we weren't by his side, I lived in terror of a phone call from the nurses. On more than one occasion we were called in to say our goodbyes. By all accounts, though, he did very well and is now a happy, healthy six year old. Lots of preemies aren't so lucky and struggle with absolutely life long complications. And, like others have said, when I think about the birth of my child....I don't get that warm, "happiest day of my life" feeling. All I remember is being scared out of my mind and begging the doctors to let me get up and go see him before he died. (They wouldn't let me out of bed for 24 hours and I was so afraid he'd be gone by then.) And, as mentioned before, nobody knew what to say....we got sympathy cards instead of congratulations cards. It was so hard.
So....whatever anybody may think of the family...I don't have a problem with this show if it helps spread some awareness about the reality of giving birth to a very premature baby. We are March of Dimes Ambassadors for our state, so we go out and speak and tell our story all the time. So many people just have no idea.....
This is my son 24 hours after his birth at 26 weeks, weighing 1lb and 7oz.
And this one is from when he was about a week old.
And this was when he was two months old, about a month before he came home.
And this, thankfully, is him at six...a happy, healthy kindergarten student! (Although he is still TINY for his age....wears a size 5T clothes.)