Wow that is amazing that you have that kinda of perspective on the clinic day and so soon after it happened. Thanks for sharing that!!! It is a good reminder. After our hospital stays me and my husband would joke that a bad at work is still better than the best day at the hospital!!
I know what you mean by how special the BIG GIVE is!!!



We ALL got so into it!! Even our teenager and my husband were super touched and moved by the kindness of people we had never met!!
Mallory is doing well!! Thanks for asking. We have made a HUGE change though... We are homeschooling!! I have wanted to be a school teacher as long as I can remember and so I never considered home-school. I just always assumed the kids would go to the school I taught at.
Homeschooling came about for a number of reasons:
First, we did have an issue some days back. She was participating in her 1st day of PE in 3rd grade and she collapsed while trying to run faster than she ever had before in her own words. She was running so fast because she could feel the kids behind her catching up to her and she was afraid they would knock her over as often happens because she is SO much smaller than them. Second, as a consequence of her heart defect she has had some brain issues and has difficulty focusing in a class of 33 students. Although she does really well in school the issue focusing means it takes her a lot longer than the typical child to finish her work. Finally, because of her size (she is 8 years old but is the size of a 4 year old) she gets hurt a lot or is teased on the playground, so she has been coming into my classroom with a few friends for recess and lunch.
I found a charter school that sponsors homeschooling and we are going through them. What is so nice is that now Mallory can attend enrichment classes when we want like they have an Ocean Explores class on Wednesdays. Plus she can go to lunch and activity time 2 days a week with other kids at this new charter school. And they pay for lots of other enrichment opportunities like dance, gymnastics, piano, art, field trips... whatever she would like to do in the community. She can go to class to get help in the core subjects if needed, but most of the actual schooling happens at home and at her pace. Friday was our 4th day of schooling this way and it is going really well.
I made her 3 school rules:
Love yourself
Love your school
Keep Trying
It was fun today because I purchased tons of art projects she can do, as she chooses. Since my husband works from home we haven't had to make any changes to our lifestyle. Except I take her to the park everyday for recess!! I teacher the lessons when I get home from school and she completes the work I leave her the next day on her own (we want to make sure she stays independent) while my husband is doing his work from home. We are going on our 1st field trip coming out and it will be to a Kids museum in Pasadena. Since I work during the week when most of group homeschooling field trips occur we are going to do most of our field trips as a family on Saturday with one of her friends joining us. This fits her so much better than what public school did. So surprisingly I find myself homeschooling!! So that is what has been going on with us!! Sorry that got so long.
I know new meds and doctors feeling concerned can be scary!!!

Lots of prayers that this is new course will work wonderfully!!
Okay I'm off to read your next post!!

Madeline