Jon and Kate non bash post

[jpaxton1118]

I really hate to say it but I think they are going to announce their divorce on tv. It just seems that too many sources are saying the same thing and the clip of the new show, to me, proves it. I don't think Kate would be sitting their crying if they were going to make it work. I think we are seeing the end of this. I just hope that they have prepared their kids for this. I can't imagine how they are going to deal with it. I know that Cara is very close to Jon, I see her taking this the hardest. I feel for her and the other kids.

 

[Buckalew11]

I believe they wanted to recommit to their marriage.

Well, see, this is where I see it different. I watched that vow renaeal and I did not, in any way, shape or form, think Jon was into renewing his vows. Kate seemed so into it, repeating that they'd be together forever like 1000x and just very sweet and kind to him--including within her vows that she was aware of her treatment of him and wanting to treat him kinder. He was totally out of it except for visiting the relatives that he barely knew either (but it was very nice they were there and the kids got to meet them--and Kate too.)

I guess it comes from watching the show and *feeling* like you kinda know these people. You just want them to succeed and save their marriage--esp. for the kids. While I do not belive in staying together for the kids very much, I do wish the kids could have happily married parents. If they announce divorce, I'll probably be a little shocked even though everything points towards it, I can't even go there in my mind. I really want them to succeed and find that "love" again.

Time away with each other, like when they went to the hotel for the tummy tuck. That show was very touching. I remember them sitting on the bed folding laundry and talking about how they reconnected. I guess that's what I want them to be able to do again.

I'm praying for them and the children. I think they really need it.

 

[Buckeye Gal]

....Time away with each other, like when they went to the hotel for the tummy tuck. That show was very touching. I remember them sitting on the bed folding laundry and talking about how they reconnected. I guess that's what I want them to be able to do again.

I'm praying for them and the children. I think they really need it.

So true and well put!

 

[3prettyprincesses]

Well, see, this is where I see it different. I watched that vow renaeal and I did not, in any way, shape or form, think Jon was into renewing his vows. Kate seemed so into it, repeating that they'd be together forever like 1000x and just very sweet and kind to him--including within her vows that she was aware of her treatment of him and wanting to treat him kinder. He was totally out of it except for visiting the relatives that he barely knew either (but it was very nice they were there and the kids got to meet them--and Kate too.)

I guess it comes from watching the show and *feeling* like you kinda know these people. You just want them to succeed and save their marriage--esp. for the kids. While I do not belive in staying together for the kids very much, I do wish the kids could have happily married parents. If they announce divorce, I'll probably be a little shocked even though everything points towards it, I can't even go there in my mind. I really want them to succeed and find that "love" again.

Time away with each other, like when they went to the hotel for the tummy tuck. That show was very touching. I remember them sitting on the bed folding laundry and talking about how they reconnected. I guess that's what I want them to be able to do again.

I'm praying for them and the children. I think they really need it.

I agree with you Buckalew and feel the exact same way. I want their marriage to succeed and would be thrilled to read that they were in marriage counseling and working it out. I think that's why the season premiere had me crying because I've watched from the beginning and I do feel in a way I know them. I too remember that tummy tuck episode and saw it a few weeks ago actually. It was so sweet, I remember how Jon prayed with Kate before she went into surgery and how she hugged him when she came out. She thanked him for bringing her and taking such good care of her. After her makeover with the doctors wife, she was so excited to go home and show Jon the new her. They seemed so happy and her reaction when she came home was really pleasant and thoughtful. I'm thinking of and praying for the kids too, I don't even want to think about what J&K had to tell them about this whole life changing decision. Poor little ones!

 

[marivaid]

Despite how much I love the show, I'm hoping they will announce that it will be the last season. I read that Jon was looking at apartments in NYC, maybe he got a job there and will be gone for the rest of the season ?

Kate made me bawl on the first episode this season when she said "this might be our last family photo".. the kids don't deserve to be split up, but J&K are never going to get over their differences with the show still going on.

Sure, the media would still hunt them for a while after the show ends but eventually it would die down and they'd find another family to prey on.

 

[happygirl]

Tonight the night. It's so funny my guide on my tv doesn't even show they are doing a new show. It shows 2 30 minute repeats LOL

 

[disneychrista]

Tonight the night. It's so funny my guide on my tv doesn't even show they are doing a new show. It shows 2 30 minute repeats LOL

My guide show one new one and one repeat. But the new one just says "special," it used to have a discription.

 

[happygirl]

It looks like they are divorcing according to People.com. It so sad. I can't believe Jon would want to be so far away from the kids.

Breaking News
Gosselin Divorce Papers Filed

By Nicole Weisensee Egan and Lisa Barron

Originally posted Monday June 22, 2009 05:10 PM EDT
Kate and Jon Gosselin Photo by: Winslow / Turgeon / Splash News Online, INFGosselin Divorce Papers Filed
After months of speculation, the 10-year marriage of Jon & Kate Plus Eight's stars Kate and Jon Gosselin appears to be coming to an end, a source close to the situation tells PEOPLE.

Documents to initiate a legal split were filed at the Bucks County Courthouse in Doylestown, Penn., Monday afternoon.

Fans who have watched the couple's popular TLC show – or read the voluminous coverage of the Gosselin marriage in the press – will hardly be surprised: The duo had long maintained a tense relationship, with Jon recently telling PEOPLE he wanted a less high-profile life, while Kate appeared to remain committed to their TV career.

In February, photos surfaced of Jon in the company of young women during a solo visit to see his mother, who was recuperating from surgery, in Huntingdon, Pa. The couple quickly attempted to quash rumors of problems. But in May, the scandal erupted again when 23-year-old Deanna Hummel was photographed driving Jon's car home from a bar late at night.

When the fifth season of the Gosselins' show premiered May 25, the couple admitted to having problems and not knowing where their relationship was headed. "Parents of multiples have triple the divorce rate," Kate said through tears. "I was thinking we were going to beat that. I don't know if I can say that anymore."

TLC promotions of the show are promising a major announcement about the family in Monday night's episode of Jon & Kate Plus Eight.

 

[iNTeNSeBLue98]

Why would they file divorce papers two counties away from their residence?

 

[happygirl]

Why would they file divorce papers two counties away from their residence?

I didn't know it was two counties away.

 

[iNTeNSeBLue98]

I didn't know it was two counties away.

Just curious, because they quoted the people.com story on the Lancaster news and they said Bucks County too. The Gosselins, as do I, live in Berks County.

 

[Buckeye Gal]

Why would they file divorce papers two counties away from their residence.....Just curious, because they quoted the people.com story on the Lancaster news and they said Bucks County too. The Gosselins, as do I, live in Berks County.

I would suspect it's because they thought eyes would be on Berks County Courthouse this week, and perhaps if it were filed in Bucks County, it would go unnoticed for just a teeny tiny bit longer. I don't know how it works in PA, but I would have thought you had to file in the county where you live.

So unfortunate for their family.

 

[happygirl]

I would suspect it's because they thought eyes would be on Berks County Courthouse this week, and perhaps if it were filed in Bucks County, it would go unnoticed for just a teeny tiny bit longer. I don't know how it works in PA, but I would have thought you had to file in the county where you live.

So unfortunate for their family.

Yes, very sad

I can't believe Jon wants to live so far away from those kids

 

[whitneyNC]

Yes, very sad

I can't believe Jon wants to live so far away from those kids

He won't be living there too much. He'll be on dad duty at the mansion everytime Kate is traveling. When she's there, he'll head for his bachelor pad in NYC, which is only about 150 miles away. I hope the kids will have two happy parents at some point soon.

 

[Buckalew11]

Ugh, well as someone who wasn't going to give up on this couple, I guess I have no choice. I hope the big announcement is divorce because if it is not and someone filed, it'll ruin tonight's show, huh?!

I can't imagine a parent choosing to live 150 miles or 3 hours away from his/her children. Suppose an emergency happens? Suppose one of them needs you? Or just wants to see you? It just makes me sick. Literally. Divorce makes me sick to my stomach, I'm sorry. I just can't help but think of 8 innocent children's lives being torn apart like this.

 

[beattyfamily]

Rats! I missed the first 5 minutes!!!

Can someone tell me what they said??

 

[ireland_nicole]

Something about how it's not good that the kids see them fighting all the time and they want peace for the kids, and then segued into the crooked house episode. Jon looks distant and flat, and Kate is sitting next to a throw pillow. Given what we've heard about the courthouse today, it doesn't look good. It's just so incredibly sad.

 

[Kathymcbain]

Oh....will someone please tell me what happened? My stupid cable just stopped working out of the blue about five minutes before the show started. GRRRRR!!

 

[LuvCuteBoys]

I can't imagine a parent choosing to live 150 miles or 3 hours away from his/her children. Suppose an emergency happens? Suppose one of them needs you? Or just wants to see you? It just makes me sick. Literally. Divorce makes me sick to my stomach, I'm sorry. I just can't help but think of 8 innocent children's lives being torn apart like this.

The children's lives could be torn apart by staying together, as well. When you weigh all your options, sometimes divorce is the only thing that makes sense. It's sad, but I know people and children whose lives were made better by the divorce.

 

[torinsmom]

IMHO, children are much better off with two parents who are happy apart than they are with two parents who are miserable together. BTDT, and I think divorce was in my son's best interest, since I couldn't even stand right the last 6 months my ex and I were married.

I am a little sad if they chose divorce without even trying counseling, but I'm sure there are a lot of things we are not privy to.

I am a little curious as to why Jon is angry at Kate(or that is what she said earlier in the show)

Marsha