JoyG said:
Jimmie,
Do you find some people get lost in the crowd at your church? How does your church reach people individually? Do your pastors know your names? I'm just curious how it works in big churches.
I'm not Jimmie, but I'm going to chime in anyway, lol.
I go to a church with more than 5000 members. I know 2 of the pastors and their wives personally, but not the rest.
I came to that church while visiting it with my son's baseball coach and his family. The thing that caught my attention was how everyone around us greeted us. They said they had never seen us there, asked if we were new to the church. Welcomed us, and were very friendly. During the sermon the pastor asked everyone to do an activity. He said he usually doesn't ask for these but wanted everyone to do it. There was one lady sitting all by herself and someone from another aisle came up to her so she could participate. I was touched. The message great, the music was fantastic, and I could really sense the present of the Holy Spirit in that sactuary. 3 months later we were members.
I eventually joined a women's Bible study. There were 200 girls, and we were split up into round tables of 8 people, and stayed with those 8 through out the whole study, so it really didn't feel so large.
I was worried about getting lost in the crowd, but that hasn't happened. In fact, I had a medical emergency one day after dh left for work. I called one of the girls from church. Within minutes there were 2 people at my door. One to take ds to school and one to take me to the doctor. When I got out to the reception area at the doctor there were a few people from church waiting for me. They saw my face and knew it was bad news. They hugged me, prayed with me, and took me home. When I had to have a medical procedure to "fix it", someone from the church brought us dinner when I got home.
Same thing when I had my 2 year old. For a week, I didnt' have to lift a finger to cook. Each night someone from church brought us a meal. We've done that for members of the church as well.
To me that's how a church family is to be, there for you when you need them, and you there for them when they need you.
Since we joined our church, it has grown alot. We opened up a seekers service at a different location. The first sunday there were 650 people in attendance. That goes to show you how many people are searching for a church. By the 3rd Sunday we had to make that into 2 services. The seekers service has continued and recently we have started small groups there too. I feel very blessed to be in a church that is growing and thriving, and alive and on fire for God!
By the way, a few pages back there was a post about going to see Michael W. Smith. Some of my friends are in his Worship CD!