May I suggest reading guide book or two. The Easy Guide to Your first Walt Disney Visit. It walks you through the steps of planning a visit. You can get a feel of the information by looking at Easywdw.com and Your first visit.net.
The unofficial Guide is also good, but you will have to figure steps on your own steps.
Keep checking BOG. People change plans. BOG is popular, but people do change their minds.
I do not think any of the three would be too hard to get.
You will need to consider how many days you want to be in the parks and whether you want to visit more than one park per day. Buying park hopper tickets cost more than one park per day tickets. With the amount of time you are there you foul do on park tickets. You
Can add hoppers while you are there if you want.
Pandora is the newest thing. It is interesting in the day and night. There are a number of good restaurants in Epcot and you visit the various pavilions to visit. Either of the guidebooks will give you information and ratings for attractions and rides. One of the first sticky notes on this site lists the FP priorities.
We have stayed at POFQ several times and love it there. It is easy to get around.
If you let people know what you interests are, you can probably get better suggestions.
Since you are at V&A you might want to look at Citricos, Artist Point, California Grill or Jiko's. These are signature restaurants at Grand Flooridian, Wilderness Lodge, The Contemporary and Animal Kingdom Lodge.
Good luck.
