I don't understand why when the personalities don't mesh, why people just can't stay away from each other, as one would in RL, instead of causing so much sadness for many others.
This is what I think: because somehow, instead of just being a great place to post, the CB has become a place where "side" groups have been dividing the CB lately. On either "side" ... the "good side", the "bad side", or whatever the heck side someone thinks they're on or looking in from, people won't let things drop! They just won't let things go!
I can't understand for the life of me, why things have to be brought up over and over and over and over, in "hidden" or "double" messages or just plain flat out. Most of us who have been here for any length of time and who spend any amount of time on the CB know what's aimed at who. And the fire keeps getting stirred over and over from all different "sides". I just wish it would stop!!!! The past is the past, whether is was a year ago, a month ago, a day ago or an hour ago!!!!! Just as in real life, you have to be willing to let things go and move on!!! No matter what "side" you're on. No one starts it, yet everyone starts it. If all the "sides" would just pick a starting point and just just move on, then maybe things will change. Until then, it's just going to be the same "stuff" over and over and over!
Why does there have to be "sides"? Why would anyone chose to separate the boards that way? It's up to each individual poster to not allow that to happen!!!! And you don't allow that to happen by coming here to enjoy the CB, not stirring up old feelings or hardships.
Sometimes it's like a huge playground around here with bullies and people who are bullied. That's why the CB needs to be monitored and I don't envy any of the mods or WM's their "jobs." They all do a great job here considering what they have to deal with each and every day, from all "sides"!