It happened Again !!! (Update)

HooKooDooKu

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[Update]
DW had a miscarriage at about 8 weeks.

Unfortunately, that was only the beginning: The day after we found out about the miscarriage, our infant son got a stomic virus so bad, we had to take him to the emergency room to stop the vomiting and get him hydrated. The next day, an aunt (DS' name sake) goes to the hospital and has to have surgery for a kidney infection. The day after was the D&C, and DS wakes that morning with a HIGH fever (have to coordinate getting wife to surgery and DS to pediatrition). Two day's later, I wake with the stomic virus so bad (Sunday) that call in sick Monday. Monday night, we get word that my aunt (and God Mother) had unexpectedly died of a heart-attack.

When we had found out that we were pregnant, we had moved our reservation from this year to fall 2005. But with the miscarriage, we've decided to go ahead and make our next cruise this September. That way, it's early enough that even if the wife gets pregnant again, we will still be able to do the September cruise.

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We cruised on DCL soon after 9-11, and Disney was offering some great On-board rebooking discounts (way much better than the best price you can get with the current 10% discounts, we're talking rates below the typical fall discounts, and they were in the spring time too). We booked us a reservation for what was going to be the very first DCL Western Carribean Cruise.

Then disappointment hit in early December. We had been trying to become parents for three years, and had been under the care of specialists for about the last two. It was time to try the last option, IVF; and even then the doctor was only giving us less than a 10% chance of success (previous responses to drugs hadn't been very promising). As we go ready to start the process, initial blood work found an auto-immune problem that would delay our even attempting IVF.

But then Christmas came along and DW noticed something wasn't right. She took a pregnancy test and it came out positive!!! The one down side was that she was going to be one week too pregnant for our Western Carribean Cruise (and since it was the 1st sailing for the Western, we couldn't re-book for an earlier date).

After taking care of a baby for a full year, the DCL bug hit us again and we tried a 4-day "test" cruise with baby. We had enough fun that we used the current on-board booking discounts to book the whole family a 7-day trip for November (going when the rates are the cheapest because she's a stay-at-home mom, so we don't have the income we used to).

Well if you've read this far, you've probalbly already figured out that this week we had another positive pregnancy test. I tried checking with DCL on rates for changing our reservation for this spring (DW isn't interested in doing a cruise while nursing a new-born and taking care of a 2nd on still in diapers if we delayed our trip til this time next year). Well our curring booking price was on the order of 2800, but to rebook for any time this spring was going to be about 4500.

So it looks like DCL is most likely not in our future for about another two years. :( But obviously we are thrilled, given our history (we had already starting looking into adoption thinking that asking for two miricles was going to be too much).
 
Congratulations on both your miracles. What a great story!!!
 
Congrats! Miracles do happen!
 
I thought you had to actually go on a cruise to get a " little souvenir".


Congrats on your second miracle.


:hug:
 

Never say never & don't believe the doctors. If you've got the parts, it can happen. Good luck with this pregnancy! Take care of yourself (but listen to the doctors for your PNC) & cruise after the baby comes. Wait until the 7 day cruises are released for fall 2005 & transfer your reservation for then.
 
Never say never & don't believe the doctors.

It wasn't a case of blindly believing the doctors. We had seen and interpreted test results for our selves that showed it would be extreamly difficult to concieve on our own. In addition, many IUIs failed (for no apparent reason) and response to fertility drugs were way below typical. Levels were so low, in fact, that our doctor had to get permission from the other doctors in the practice to even let us try IVF because we were below their standard levels to proceed. So low that the doctor only gave us a 50% chance that enough eggs could be retrieved to complete the process. I think the only reason they were going to even let us try was because it was not going to be a financial burden at the time (insurance picked up most the cost for some VERY expensive drugs, and we had some stock that we could sell to fund the procedure, that is until the recent stock market bust - that stock never did recover).

Hmmm, its even more of a coincidence that I originally realized. For the first one we went on a 4 day cruise in early October and about two months later, we're pregnant. This time we go on a 4 day cruise in late October and about two to three months later, we are pregnant again! Two miricles are propably enought, so when we do get back to cruising again, I guess we'll have to stick to the 7-day cruises:)

Wait until the 7 day cruises are released for fall 2005 & transfer your reservation for then.
Something like that is our current plan. For the moment we want to just sit on the reservations until we at least get past the 10 week mark (for those who don't know, 90% of miscarraiges occur within the first 10 weeks of pregnancy, but if the pregnancy progresses to the 10 week point and you can detect a heart beat, then most likely you will have a successful pregnancy).

While we are on the subject [SoapBox=ON] for those of you who think do not think abortion is murder and think the slogan "Abortion stops a beating heart" is just a scare tactick, it isn't. Because our previous pregnancy was considered high-risk, we got to take a lot of early ultrasounds. Based on the way pregnancys are tracked, you are what is considered 4 weeks pregnant before you can even determine you are pregnant with a blood test. By week 8, the head and arm buds could be seen on the ultrasound. By week 9, we saw a heart beat via the ultrasound. [SoapBox=OFF].
 
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Originally posted by HooKooDooKu
It wasn't a case of blindly believing the doctors. We had seen and interpreted test results for our selves that showed it would be extreamly difficult to concieve on our own. In addition, many IUIs failed (for no apparent reason) and response to fertility drugs were way below typical. Levels were so low, in fact, that our doctor had to get permission from the other doctors in the practice to even let us try IVF because we were below their standard levels to proceed. So low that the doctor only gave us a 50% chance that enough eggs could be retrieved to complete the process. I think the only reason they were going to even let us try was because it was not going to be a financial burden at the time (insurance picked up most the cost for some VERY expensive drugs, and we had some stock that we could sell to fund the procedure, that is until the recent stock market bust - that stock never did recover).


I can't even begin to tell you how happy I am for you and your wife! I am a 2 time surrogate mother and it just breaks my heart to know all the disappointment that so many couples go through just to have a baby. Miracles do happen and I'm thrilled that you were lucky enough to have 2 precious miracles occur. I pray that your DW has an easy and uneventful pregnancy!:teeth:
 
Maybe it was you guys that started "The little souvenier" commercials, huh?!! :)

Congratulations!

~ Linda :)
 
Maybe it was you guys that started "The little souvenier" commercials, huh?!!

Afraid not, like I said, the timing was such that "things" happend after the cruise and it was just tonight that I realized that we soon got new souveniers soon AFTER our last two cruises.

I pray that your DW has an easy and uneventful pregnancy!
Thanks so much, all prayers are gladly welcome. Because of our history and things that have shown up in blood work, ours is considered an "at-risk" pregnancy. I know one of our problems requires DW to get two shots of heprin (blood thinner) per day (something about her blood coagulation factor being high and that could cause blood to pool in the placenta starving the baby).
 
More prayers for you, wife, and both babies!! Congrats!
 
Congratulations! DCL will still be around when you all are ready to cruise again. I hope all goes well with the pregnancy. ::MinnieMo
 
I love stories like yours. It just puts a happy lump in my throat.

:Pinkbounc :bounce:
 
Congratulations to you an DW. That is teriffic news. You must feel so blessed. We also experienced infertility problems and are now lucky enough to have two beautiful DD's. We also had two in diapers at the same time - they are 11 months apart. We took them when we got them. It was terribly difficult at first but they are best of friends now.

Good luck, prayers and PD for a comfortable, healthy pregnancy, baby and mother.

Denae
 
congratulations,...... with your "record" ===be careful if you DO go on that 7 day... you may end up with twins
 
be careful if you DO go on that 7 day... you may end up with twins

Ouch! I never though of it that way. Let's just pretent for the moment the 10-day doesn't exist :) (It is for us anyway, since baby must be 3 months old before cruising, the earliest we could go would be mid-january 2005.
 
Boy that sure sounds like it could make a great DCL commercial.. ".. book a Disney Cruise.. the pixie dust will take care of the rest...." Now if you could just get ON the ship :) Although like Jeanny said be careful, you may end up with twins (or triplets)
 
Congrats. We're in a similar situation. We booked a cruise in 2001, then found out my wife was pregnant. We were three weeks over, so I cancelled the cruise (I thought!). Then, it turned out to be an ectopic pregnancy, where my wife came within 5 minutes of dying. While she was recovering at home, I kept checking for the return of the deposit for the cruise, and it didn't come. Then, I checked with the TA, and they confirmed they cancelled the cruise.

After another few weeks with no refund, I called Disney, and they still had the reservation as active. I decided that there must be a reason why this never got cancelled, so I left it, and told my wife we were going on the cruise. It really helped her recovery.

Fast forward to this year. After numerous IUI's, and fertility drugs, we've decided it just isn't going to happen. So, we've started the process to adopt a child from Russia. We decided, however, to squeeze one last "childless" vacation in, before we make the trip to Moscow. So, one more cruise, then it's a couple of years of staying home, and then, DISNEY WITH A KID!

I'm very happy that you are getting your dream fulfilled. My prayers are with you for a safe pregnancy!
 

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