cabanafrau
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- May 10, 2006
Yep! And if the daughter just came back and said "No, that's not what we want to do" then the OP needs to accept that. I'm guessing the daughter is complaining.
If the daughter has complaints with her fiance, mom and dad aren't the path to solving them.
Hmm okay. Well if your daughter is okay with that, then there's not really much you can do. Personally though, I would lose my mind if my SO told me we couldn't do at least one trip a year and I'm swimming in loan debt.
Would you view it differently if your SO was living with tremendous anxiety about swimming in so much debt? Would you think your desire to travel should trump their need to pay off debt first?