My daughter is getting married next year. Her fiance grew up poor as his father died when he was an infant and his mother's second husband became disabled and couldn't work. He has never been on a plane before and doesn't have a passport. Before they got engaged we invited him to come on our annual DisneyLand trip and he said no and told us upfront that he doesn't take handouts for trips, concerts, or other fun events. They got engaged last year in June. We went to Hawaii a few months later and offered to take him and again the answer was no. We are going to WDW in August and we have been all trying to get him to come on trip including our daughter. She has even said that she and him could around Orlando and do other things if he doesn't want to go around WDW. They got into a huge fight and he said that doesn't want our pity or us spending a lot of money on stupid little trip. We just want to welcome him into our family and make him feel a part of our lives.