ashman
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My dad very graciously bought a cruise for my mom, my sister and her husband, and my family. They don't like to fly so they wanted to do a cruise that they could drive to. He bought a 9 night cruise sailing out of Norfolk with RCCL which is about a 2 hour drive for them. When he was looking to set it up he asked me if it was okay. My dad is a big dreamer and gets a certain vision in his mind and I didn't want his feelings to get hurt. I told him that would be great but suggested that he wait until we got closer to the sail date to tell the girls. We have all gone through the HOW MANY DAYS LEFT thing haven't we!
So my dad starts talking to my kids "hypothetically" about us all going on a cruise together with another line. He then begins to spout off all these things that is great about an RCCL cruise. My kids would counter every point with something about a DCL cruise that they loved. My youngest closed the conversation with, "Well Disney shoots fireworks off their ship, they are the ONLY cruise line in the whole WORLD that can do that!"
Needless to say, this wasn't going well for my dad! I had a conversation with him later and I tried to make it easier for him. I reminded him that the only cruise line he has ever been on has been RCCL, every cruise experience he is ever going to have is going to be seen through that lens. I pointed out that the girls were the same way only their lens was DCL. I told him it would be fine, we would have a great time just let the girls enjoy it as it comes.
With that in mind he set the cruise up. My only caveat was it would be understood that at each port, everyone was free to do what they wanted to do. No pressure to go or not go on a certain excursion. We would try to get together every night for dinner and share our day with each other.
Some now are calling FOuL FOUL TRAITOR! You are leaving DCL Shubman, SHAME on you!
What's a guy to do? Dad is springing for a free cruise heck yeah I'm going! Now we just have to wait until our sail date and get to the ship, nice and easy right? Weeeeellllllll if you have EVER read one of my trip reports be for, you know it is never going to be just that simple. To find out more tune in to the next chapter to see what happens on the way to the ship!
So my dad starts talking to my kids "hypothetically" about us all going on a cruise together with another line. He then begins to spout off all these things that is great about an RCCL cruise. My kids would counter every point with something about a DCL cruise that they loved. My youngest closed the conversation with, "Well Disney shoots fireworks off their ship, they are the ONLY cruise line in the whole WORLD that can do that!"

Needless to say, this wasn't going well for my dad! I had a conversation with him later and I tried to make it easier for him. I reminded him that the only cruise line he has ever been on has been RCCL, every cruise experience he is ever going to have is going to be seen through that lens. I pointed out that the girls were the same way only their lens was DCL. I told him it would be fine, we would have a great time just let the girls enjoy it as it comes.
With that in mind he set the cruise up. My only caveat was it would be understood that at each port, everyone was free to do what they wanted to do. No pressure to go or not go on a certain excursion. We would try to get together every night for dinner and share our day with each other.
Some now are calling FOuL FOUL TRAITOR! You are leaving DCL Shubman, SHAME on you!
What's a guy to do? Dad is springing for a free cruise heck yeah I'm going! Now we just have to wait until our sail date and get to the ship, nice and easy right? Weeeeellllllll if you have EVER read one of my trip reports be for, you know it is never going to be just that simple. To find out more tune in to the next chapter to see what happens on the way to the ship!

. My wife talks with her mom who lives about 2 hours away and she agrees to watch our dogs if we will do the same a week later after our cruise. This will mean driving up to their house 2 hours the night before and then 5 hours to Norfolk instead of a 4 hour straight shot. Not terribly excited about that but it is our best option right now. A few days later our friends say they CAN do it but it would mess things up with my in-laws. So on Wed the 2nd I finish with my last day of post-planning as a teacher. I get home, my wife has the car loaded and ready to go. We get to my in-laws visit for a while and hit the sack. We've got a long drive ahead.


. We made sure that the kids knew not to just throw the towels in the bin. I overheard at least one family "discussion" where another family threw a towel in but didn't check it in and the fun that ensued over the inevitable $20 ding.
You go, MiniMe, for trying escargot!! My kids are pretty adventurous, but they know what escargot is, so I am not sure I could get them to go for that!
They do love calamari, although they have no clue what it actually is...
A bit later, we have a winner! The payout $86. WOW Big spenders those RCCL types.
A little while later, we have a real winner! Payout, $215 a tad better but it really seemed like a scam given the amount of cards that were sold but who cares, on to the fourth game, that is what we are here for!