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DS's school has an open campus (we are in FL) with the cafeteria in a separate building. No food is allowed in the classrooms or locker bays.
One student left the remnants of her birthday cake (the part with her name on it) and another spilled a gatorade in the Freshman locker bay, which attracted ants and bugs. The Dean of Students punished the whole Freshman class by making them spend the first 25 minutes of their lunch period cleaning the locker bay, and said they would have to do it for the next two weeks. She, and most of the students, knew who the culprits were.
She did not continue the punishment for the two weeks, as I suspect that DS was not the only one who wasn't able to eat lunch in the amount of time left, so other parents may have complained. (I just fed DS a larger breakfast, and packed him a lunch)
Then, just yesterday, a student hit her (the dean) with an acorn in the freshman courtyard. Only the boys were punished (they had to sit in silence until the bell), although DS, and others, saw that it had come from a group of girls. He was not able to say which SPECIFIC girl had thrown it, but he and others saw a hand toss it. The girls were still allowed to socialize, as the dean apparently refused to believe that a girl had done it. (This according to DS, of course.
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IMO, if she had just meted out punishment to the culprits in the first case, the rest of the class would have thought twice about breaking the rules/misbehaving. I think that the punishment itself (cleaning the locker bay) was an appropriate one for the misdeed, I just didn't agree with including those students who follow the rules having to participate.
In the second, if she gives a group punishment (which I believe is ineffective), it should have been a total group punishment.
DS's school has an open campus (we are in FL) with the cafeteria in a separate building. No food is allowed in the classrooms or locker bays.
One student left the remnants of her birthday cake (the part with her name on it) and another spilled a gatorade in the Freshman locker bay, which attracted ants and bugs. The Dean of Students punished the whole Freshman class by making them spend the first 25 minutes of their lunch period cleaning the locker bay, and said they would have to do it for the next two weeks. She, and most of the students, knew who the culprits were.
She did not continue the punishment for the two weeks, as I suspect that DS was not the only one who wasn't able to eat lunch in the amount of time left, so other parents may have complained. (I just fed DS a larger breakfast, and packed him a lunch)
Then, just yesterday, a student hit her (the dean) with an acorn in the freshman courtyard. Only the boys were punished (they had to sit in silence until the bell), although DS, and others, saw that it had come from a group of girls. He was not able to say which SPECIFIC girl had thrown it, but he and others saw a hand toss it. The girls were still allowed to socialize, as the dean apparently refused to believe that a girl had done it. (This according to DS, of course.
)IMO, if she had just meted out punishment to the culprits in the first case, the rest of the class would have thought twice about breaking the rules/misbehaving. I think that the punishment itself (cleaning the locker bay) was an appropriate one for the misdeed, I just didn't agree with including those students who follow the rules having to participate.
In the second, if she gives a group punishment (which I believe is ineffective), it should have been a total group punishment.
Teacher told her it was her problem to solve and she doesn't want to hear it. If things don't improve soon I will be placing that phone call also!
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quite reasonable when you calmly say "I sent Mrs. Smith an e-mail on Tuesday morning and haven't received a response yet." That way, you have gone to the teacher first, and also covered your bases by having a paper trail of that fact.