My dad passed away 6 months ago, he used to always tell us he was "rich in everything but money", we actually used that in his eulogy. This thread has done a wonderful job of having great conversation with positive vibes, even with people from all different income levels. We live in a fairly inexpensive part of the country, my dh makes a good living but we are definately not rich (in $, anyway

). I have a teaching degree but have stayed home with my kids since the oldest was born. Our van is 10 years old, and most of my friends have remodeled their homes w/ new furniture, etc. 2 or 3 times while we have not. I have gotten comments from friends about how we really need a new van - they all drive brand new, expensive suv's, BUT we are able to take a nice vacation every year or 2 as that is a priority to us. I read an article recently that said people who spent their money on events, or memories vs. things were overall happier w/ their lives. I would agree w/ that!

I love to come to the disboards bec. in my small town most people put a huge priority on having the best, biggest home, car, new phones, gadgets, etc, and the dis is one of the few places I feel like I am normal for wanting to save in those areas so we can spend our $ on wonderful, memory filled vacations w/ our family instead.