nataliesdaddy said:Anyway, that left me with a slew when I finally got the Treas dept, and the Gov's final "in stone" commitment to stop screwing with my vacation - lol
So now I am down to 25 - probably going to cull it down to 15
Don't know why. They are very different thinsg - certainly not synonyms.MommyBoo! said:You're right, you asked if people thought you were being rude. Some people see rude and selfish as similar.
Well, yeah they will cancel if you have two simultaneous reservations. That is an easy thing to set up a booking engine to look for. Other permutations would not be as simple and would lead to auto cancellations happening where there should be none. Disney would have to be crazy to write cancelling code for anything other then simultaneous or near simultaneous reservations. Besides none of mine are simultaneous, most would be at least an hour apart.MommyBoo! said:Actually, it's been reported that they have started cancelling double bookings for resorts and will be checking for the same with ps. If the problem continues, they most likely will start requiring deposits for a ps that they now do not.
Yeah we should have a great time - usually do. Daughter has a blast. I get tons of great pictures of her laughing and smiling for my reward. Fiance and daughter get to relax while I work my tail off. Grandma, just hangs out and meets us for meals here and there. Pretty much everyone is elated and euphoric ... my vacation comes laterMommyBoo! said:OK, I know what it's like to have your schedule constantly change, but I still think it is rude to hold on to extra pss. I am finding this thread interesting. I do hope you have a good vacation.
I don't know about that - concierge has consistently told me if you are at a Dis resort you get in - if you are not a dis resort guest then no you don't get inlllovell said:I don't think your info about park closings is correct. There is a capacity and days like New Years Eve and July 4th often hit it and if you aren't in, you dont get in - no matter where you are staying.
I see how you ended up with so many at this point and I see why you have kept some of them. I wouldn't do it this way but what you have now explained makes more sense than before. I would still cancel the other as soon as you can.
What exactly did you expect?nataliesdaddy said:well thanks for your judgementalism - its 25 over the course of 14 days
The definition of "selfish" is to think only of oneself. This is how the whole thing is appearing to everyone...that you're only thinking of yourself in this and not being considerate to the fact that you may be "screwing someone over" in a way with all your PS arrangements, whether or not that is your intent. So yes, I can see why people see it as being selfish. And even though selfishness & rudeness are not synonyms, they DO go hand in hand. To think only of oneself definitely IS rude. And people wouldn't be rude if they weren't only concerned with their own well-being (i.e. looking out for #1).Don't know why. They are very different thinsg - certainly not synonyms.
As mommypoppins wrote, at the busiest times of the year (like New Years, Christmas, 4th of July), WDW resort guest are guaranteed entrance into a park, not necessarily the park of their choice. Closing a park goes in several phases, the first being closing the parking lot (which means only guests using WDW transportation can get in). The final phase of closing is closed to all guests, with WDW resort guests being diverted to a park that is not at that level of closing.nataliesdaddy said:I don't know about that - concierge has consistently told me if you are at a Dis resort you get in - if you are not a dis resort guest then no you don't get in
no that is not how it looks to everyone - read through the thread very few have used that term - many have used the word "unfair"...which I would agree withmking624 said:The definition of "selfish" is to think only of oneself. This is how the whole thing is appearing to everyone
again that would be judgementalism by definition as you would have no idea of who I am or why I do what I do. It would have very little to do with self. If it did have to do with selfishness I would not be going to Disney.mking624 said:that you're only thinking of yourself
wound up helping some people on the disboards alsomking624 said:in this and not being considerate to the fact that you may be "screwing someone over" in a way with all your PS arrangements, whether or not that is your intent.
Well no actually they don't. They are entirely different concepts. People are frequently rude without being selfish or egocentric in the least - and vice versa. And people are often very egocentric without being rude in the least.mking624 said:So yes, I can see why people see it as being selfish. And even though selfishness & rudeness are not synonyms, they DO go hand in hand.
Well no, that wouldn't be truemking624 said:To think only of oneself definitely IS rude.
and that wouldn't be true either. People are frequently rude while not being the slightest bit selfish.mking624 said:And people wouldn't be rude if they weren't only concerned with their own well-being (i.e. looking out for #1).
Oh... whether rude or not rude - impolite or not impolite are both quite social and cultural things. Selfishness is to impute motive. They are entirely different concepts. I can be in mexico, use pluperfect instead of conditional tense and wind up being extremely rude and lewd without being remoteoly selfish. Or I can shake a persons hand in a gesture of friendship or in a meeting and wind up insulting the person without knowing it. I have even said "thank you" before and had it construed as being incredibly rude. None of which had anything to do with my being selfish. And I have had extremely selfish motives before and not been considered rude. I bought a painting... no one but no one was going to have that painting but me. I got it. Everyone thought extremely well of me for it, because what was my selfish obsession to have a painting was seen by others as an act of philanthropy. The artist, the charity, and the girlfriend I gave it to none found anything rude about it in the least - yet it was an extremely selfish act.mking624 said:As mill4023 so wonderfully put: what exactly did you expect? When you specifically word a subject title to ask whether something is impolite or good strategy...then you have to expect people to jump on the "impolite" bandwagon.
MommyBoo! said:Actually, it's been reported that they have started cancelling double bookings for resorts and will be checking for the same with ps. If the problem continues, they most likely will start requiring deposits for a ps that they now do not.
I've been curious about this too since seeing a post about it. Someone had made two different reservations for the same dates, intending to cancel one when she made her final decision on where to stay. At some point Disney made the decision for her and cancelled one of them. I'm guessing that if you actually did want to book and pay for two rooms at two different resorts, they would be put under the same confirmation number or somehow be tied together as part of the same reservation? That way they know you are not trying to "hide" one by calling two different times and making two separate reservations which end up being totally separate from one another? Just speculation on my part. I've never booked more than one room so I don't actually know how confirmation numbers are assigned, i.e., if you can have the same confirmation number refer to multiple rooms or if each room has to have it's own confirmation number, even if all of the rooms are part of the same reservation? Given that some people have large families and require more than one room (though usually at the same resort), they must have a way to tie multiple rooms together into one reservation. The question is, how does that work if those rooms are not at the same resort?nataliesdaddy said:this has me very curious - so then - If instead of booking a suite, I wanted to book the Yacht Club and the Contemporary for the same week or two so we could be close to MK when we were doing MK and then close to Epcot and MGM when we were doing Epcot and MGM they will no longer allow a family to have two or three rooms?
Yep I have to find out the answer to that - Because I was thinking of doing that on our next trip.LisaS said:I've been curious about this too since seeing a post about it. Someone had made two different reservations for the same dates, intending to cancel one when she made her final decision on where to stay. At some point Disney made the decision for her and cancelled one of them. I'm guessing that if you actually did want to book and pay for two rooms at two different resorts, they would be put under the same confirmation number or somehow be tied together as part of the same reservation? That way they know you are not trying to "hide" one by calling two different times and making two separate reservations which end up being totally separate from one another? Just speculation on my part. I've never booked more than one room so I don't actually know how confirmation numbers are assigned, i.e., if you can have the same confirmation number refer to multiple rooms or if each room has to have it's own confirmation number, even if all of the rooms are part of the same reservation? Given that some people have large families and require more than one room (though usually at the same resort), they must have a way to tie multiple rooms together into one reservation. The question is, how does that work if those rooms are not at the same resort?
nataliesdaddy said:this has me very curious - so then - If instead of booking a suite, I wanted to book the Yacht Club and the Contemporary for the same week or two so we could be close to MK when we were doing MK and then close to Epcot and MGM when we were doing Epcot and MGM they will no longer allow a family to have two or three rooms?
nataliesdaddy said:well thanks for your judgementalism - its 25 over the course of 14 days
nataliesdaddy said:pluperfectWait, I'm still looking up what permutations means.