our honeymoon trip we didnt have the DDP but it worked out because hurricane Wilma came through and we were able to get into any restaurant. Then last Dec we went and being from the west coast we had no idea that we had to plan 180 before hand (is 90 now I guess) for reservations it took months of getting on the phone sometimes twice a day to get our reservations and even then we ended up doing walk up to the crystal at MK and only had to wait 20 min. It was frustating to purchase the DDP and then not be able to get reservations at the shows, or character dining.
In the end we had lots of fun ate way to much food but had 2 small ones that enjoyed the breaks and we didnt buy them the extra meals.
Our next trip we will not do the delux plan and may not even do the DDP at all since we are now DVC members we can eat breakfast at the room when we are not doing character dines and we pretty much found the price of the meals to be a wash unless you want to eat like crazy.
Good luck hope this helps a little.
In the end we had lots of fun ate way to much food but had 2 small ones that enjoyed the breaks and we didnt buy them the extra meals.
Our next trip we will not do the delux plan and may not even do the DDP at all since we are now DVC members we can eat breakfast at the room when we are not doing character dines and we pretty much found the price of the meals to be a wash unless you want to eat like crazy.
Good luck hope this helps a little.

. We used to live in FL and used the 20% discount card and we have used the 