jake&samsmom
Jordan's Mom too!
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- Jul 5, 2007
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I know OP has a resolution to her question, but I just wanted to point out that it is VERY RUDE to ASSume that someone should "have college paid for for all kids" before even considering a big ticket purchase. What may be a big ticket item for some is a small change item for others (or very carefully planned out and saved for as in OP's case), and BOTH kinds of people frequent the budget board.
Not to mention that there are MANY FAMILIES who don't plan to have entire college education money put aside for their kids. My parents didn't have 1 red cent for my eductation, I'm still paying the sallie mae bills to prove it. We plan to have money put aside for the kids' education, but not footing the entire education bill. (we don't want them to be strapped with the kind of loans I have, but doing work study and taking a few small loans here and there is par for the course for a college education)
Sorry to hop on my soapbox, OP but I simply HATE when people who CANT AFFORD big ticket items as easily as others (or at all) start to judge those who can. And when those who choose to live a on a shoestring budget, make-laundry-soap-from-scratch life judge those who like technology, and other extra fun & frivilous things it really gets under my skin.
Amen to everything above. DS 9 is getting an iPad with his saved up money and he deserves it 100%.


