I have a question - if using "First Communion" money has strings attached, what about "Christmas" money? Does it fall under the same restrictions?
I'm not Catholic so I don't know the first thing about First Communion money - is it a gift to the child to celebrate an important event, like a Scouting award? Is it supposed to be re-gifted as a charitable donation? Only spent on religious items? Please fill me in!!
OP, if your daughter wants an ereader but doesn't want to spend iPad money, a Kindle 2 would be a great choice.
Amazon gift cards could keep her in books and there are lots of free classics. I know it is more of a "one use" item (although it does have a basic web browser) but boy would it be a great reader for her. My girls each have one (both passed down from me after I upgraded twice!) and they LOVE them. Just a thought...