As the mother of a child with a learning disability, I TOTALLY understand and agree! My son will not suffer and fail and have inappropropriate expectations placed on him. And, neither will I.
His teacher this year is not even using the the school/board approved Reading-Language curriculum. She is using a hodge-podge of lame 'trade materials' that do not constitute a well developed and sensible curriculum. Much of this stuff is completely inappropriate and should not be given to my son according to his IEP. Also, because of this varied hodge-podge of poorly developed materials, the students are repeatedly being graded on concepts that have not yet been presented to them. Ohhh, but she does go over these AFTER the kids have been expected to complete the worksheets without any teaching or presentation beforehand. I am sorry, but using the grading process as 'review' and 'teaching' is as ****=backwards as putting the cart before the horse decades ago.
I have simply and firmly refused to "review and correct" all of these inappropriate worksheets which are sent home when the student does not get the correct answers. I am not on the school's payroll. I am not homeschooling. If I wanted to homeschool my child, then that is exactly what I would be doing. The school EXIST with the sole purpose of educating our children. If they cannot do that in the 7-8 hour day that they have these children, (with reasonable and age-appropriate homework) then that is THEIR shortcoming, not mine. Expecting children to be devoted to school from before dawn until they collapse into bed at night is just plain wrong. I don't care what other countries are doing. That does not make it right. Not at all. Did you know that some of these other so-called 'competitive' countries who have such demanding school systems, like freakin' boot-camp, with days even longer than ours, also have astonishing and sickeningly sad child-teen suicide rates.
I am all for educating my child. It means far more to me that any of you could ever imagine. But, using 'education' as an excuse for all of these expectations and demands is just exactly that.... an excuse. The ends do NOT always justify the means.