Gonga,
Your points were noted and understood. I hope many of our points are noticed, also. Someone who doesn't really care what the rules are is a jerk, no matter what rule they're breaking. I do question to what degree this infraction has increased. I personally think it's gotten a lot better as smokers have adjusted to, and reacted to, rules governing smoking in specified areas.
I think any post complaining about breaking of this rule is often followed by accusatory hysteria. I wonder if folks that don't care for smoking in the first place are simply becoming more sensitive. When 20,000 people are shoved in one area and you see ten or so folks smoking outside the allowed areas, that hardly constitutes an epidemic.
Yet I have seen folks, most of whom have annoying quirks all their own, build it up to be more than it is. And anyone with a cigarette in their hand, even in legal areas, is now simply a smoker. There's a subculture that a few of us are getting just as sensitive to as those who wish we'd go away.
Bottom line, 99 out of a 100 (probably better odds than that) of smokers are in the right area or simply aren't aware they aren't and won't make the same mistake again. I question whether 99 out of 100 families have their kids in control and don't let them break any rules all day. Likewise, I'm sure that the instances of non-smokers stumbling into smoking areas and making a scene are rare. But I doubt they're much more rare than smokers who simply don't give a hoot.
Thus, I get back to my original response to your original post, which is the guy that told you to mind your own business was a jerk, whether he's smoking or not. Those of us that smoke within the guidelines get a little tired that any post about such a person seems to result in mythical hordes of nonchalant smokers and calls for eliminating smoking from the parks. I hope my point is well made, as was yours.
I think I see a lot of random acts of rudeness in the park, but I deal with it. I'd like to see just one of these threads concentrate on rudeness itself, rather than try and find a particular group to blame. This isn't a reaction to your post, in particular. It's a reaction to a couple of years of this stuff appearing on the boards here. I'd love to see a thread, just once, titled "What dumb, rude, inconsiderate thing I did last time I was at Disney that I promise not to do again."
Stepping down off soap box,
Pat