OK.. so apparently by later I meant a few days later! pardon me! Life has been CRAZY! Between work, soccer, and play practice I have not stopped moving all week!
Oh and to add to it, Bob and I started back up with our Myfitnesspal and working out! I'm realistic enough to know that I wont lose much by the wedding, but any loss will help me look beautiful for him on that day, and makes me healthier, so I'm trying to stay positive! Wish me luck, send me your best secrets, recipes, work out routines! The different part of this time around is we are no longer members of the gym, and life is much busier.. so we will be working out at home, and I hope it works out!
Now, you didn't come here for that, you came here for Disneymoon and wedding news!
Well here is the first bit of Disneymoon swag I have gotten
We figured we would splurge and get the + since we are dining and doing rides at many of the places, I think we may be splitting it with Jophia as well, so that will cut down on cost. Even if we don't it's ok, I really want a LOT of pics this trip, ones where I am in them! lol
In other Disneymoon news, Ronmel has me second guessing my days, and when I get a chance, I am going to take a look at our schedule again, and see if I can fit DHS in on one of our alone days.... I am thinking of doing a split day on my chosen day, starting off at DHS then heading to MK then to Cali Grill for dinner. IF I do this, it wouldn't make sense to do CRT... I'm SO torn! But the idea of doing TSMM sans kids, and Star Tours alone.... ugh IDK what to do yall!!
Suggestions???
Now, onto wedding biz!
Wanna see our invites??? Wanna See our RSVP Cards?? OK!!
and our AWESOME RSVP cards!! Ready to love me?? Ready to LOL??
Do yall love?? We do, and we thought we were so clever and funny...
and did I mention yet that Bobs mom is throwing a breakfast the day after our wedding?? Well, she is, bless her heart! Here are the invites for that!
How cute is her wording?? LOVE it!
So, was it worth the wait? Do you guys like them? We love them, and they are ordered, can't wait to get them in and start sending!!
So what other awesomeness can I share with you today you ask? Your BFF's Jophia are joining, you got the Roots to photograph your wedding, what more could I ask for.....
Well, I almost don't believe it myself, but it is true, flights have been booked, and room reserved. Can you guess who is coming to our wedding?
I'll give you some hints...
She is the official "it" Disbride...
He makes us smile and laugh and believe in magic all while having his hand shoved up a hand made puppet...
THEY were the original Root wedding couple, and continue to pleasure us with hiring them for shoot after cool shoot!
She has been a great friend, helped me plan trips, mend a broken heart, helped with English papers when I thought I would jump off a bridge,been my all around Disney go to, and they have been all around thoughtful , and always think of my kids when they go to a new Disney place, or see something that reminds them of us!
Have you guessed yet?
If you haven't perhaps you are new to the Dis, so I will forgive you!
I present Carriatrick! or maybe you know her as Lurkyloo?
That is them in one of Carries BRILLIANTLY planned (schemed) nights at DHS, shot of course by the Roots!
To say I am elated, and flattered doesn't even begin to explain how I feel!
They are flying all the way from California just for my lil' ol wedding!
I literally am the luckiest girl in the world.. lets review why:
*Marrying my BFF
*BFF is an amazing father to my children!!!!!!!!!
*Disney Honeymoon!
*Jophia are coming to our wedding AND being amazing friends and taking our kids for 2 days!
*Root Photography are shooting our wedding! Holy Cow!
*Carriatrick are flying in from Cali for our wedding!
Needless to say, I am a happy Jenn! Yesterday marked 3 months til we say I do! I am pretty sure my shower is next weekend.. but shhhh.. I'm not supposed to know that!
NOW, y'all ready for the BAD news?
yeah, really, bad news.
I am down one bridesmaid.
I had to ask her to step down from the position, but only after she pretty much said she couldn't do it anymore.
I say pretty much, because she was wishy washy about it, so I finally bit the bullet and told her she was out.
How? Why? When? What?
Yeah, I'm having the same thoughts.
It started in June when said Bridesmaid called me CRYING about how I was going to hate my shower, and it was too fancy, and she doesn't even know what to wear so I certainly won't have anything to wear....
AT THAT POINT I SHOULD HAVE KICKED HER OUT.
But, I didn't. Some how I thought she was being thoughtful and caring
Then a couple weeks ago, I get texts asking what kinds of white flowers I like... I say I don't, she says, I know, but that is what the boss ladies (my MOH's) told me I had to get.. she then went on to tell me that said MOH are mean and bullies, etc....
At this point, I am ***
is going on here!
So I send out a mass email, only to find out, there has been NO bullying, and MOH reads me every email ever written... all I can come up with is that BM lost her mind.
She lied about making payment towards venue for shower, she called me, she was snarky to them.
But again, she CALLED me, got ME involved. I emailed her, gave her chances, and all I got was a generic sorry, with no explanation. ALL of it could have been resolved had she called either MOH. In her texts/emails she illuded to not being able to be a BM anymore, so finally I was like forget it, don't lead me on, you're OUT!
Keep in mind, I have known this girl 12 years now. Met her while she was prego with her son, and I with Kayla, both due on same day.
Shes the one who took care of the kids and I when john up and left.
She picked my wedding dress, officiant, and wedding binder!
She has been a BFF. and I have NO CLUE *** happened!
So yeah, bad , sad, heart breaking news.
I'll be OK, but I am def bummed out!
Here are some pics of our recent family outing to cheer you and I up!
They are from this past weekend at our local farm!
continued in next post...
And I love how Kayla is rocking it behind him!
and yeah.. pretty dang good!
... (I'm planning on doing the couch to 5k...) You know that within 3 weeks of working out... It does start to make a difference to your health and a healthier you is a happier you and its all just holistic...
