Thank you very much. My super ego, ego and id all three needed a stroke today!
No problem! Anytime!!!
Good point! When I finally got up the courage to stop using food (especially junk food) as a crutch, after about two weeks of not eating any junk at all, my cravings for the ****e basically disappeared. I have a craving now and then (and yes, on rare special occasions I'll have a cookie or thin slice of cake) but if I eat 1 cookie and stop, or a bite or two of cake and STOP, I don't fall off the wagon or back into having full, hard cravings for the junk. But, for about a year into my weight loss venture, I didn't eat any of it.
Also, one of the biggest "control" issues for me and when I really knew I was owning my weight problem was when I learned to say "NO" to the cravings and succeed at them. For me, being able to not eat a piece of cake or a chocolate when it was banging on my front door, that was the biggest confidence and self-esteem booster ever.
I was reading through a whole weeks worth of the board, today. There's so much I want to comment on but don't have the time to do it. But, earlier in the week, I think it was Paula or someone to Paula, was talking about how much progress she had made and how well she was "owning it" (I think was the phrase). First off, a million kudos and congrats to you, Paula

! WHOA! Awesome, supercalifragilisticexpialidocious job! I'd give you a "peanut buttah jelly" banana if I didn't hate it so much. But, my point is, that we really know for sure that we're "owning it" when we can resist eating something that is a hard temptation for us.