Hi to all my beautimus babes...
1st - great pics Lyz - did you fly to Dollywood? Cute babies and pigs...God rest there bacon bit souls...
2nd - Glad all survived Hannah...no retributions here but it cold for this time of year - 50'-60's is freezing for now...
3rd - Paula - so glad you got some new duds...can't wait for pics...
4th - E - glad you got the run in...and glad you are not just a pretty voice to your students...they may think you are one step away from a 1-900 #!
5th - Nancy - I may have had a crack induced moment...but I am totally confused on where you work...I think we need to do a new re-cap since some have left..some are new...
and as for questions posed of myself
#1 No YMCA - we went grocery shopping instead - I am back to not feeling well and bleeding pretty bad - so no excersize cause that just makes me flow like Mt. St Helens... but I am eating much better - no Fast Food at all in over 2 weeks I believe...
#2 Deb - WARNING LONG SOCCER BLOG AHEAD _ DO NOT READ IF YOU DO NOT WANT TO...
Treyner absolutley bears some responsibility in this...once he found out he missed - he should have called the coach...expalined and worked damage control..not wait till th enext day - that was not responsible at all...
Unfortunatley...the problem is a huge school issue now...and not from my end...or Treyner's...
The back-up goalie's parents went to the AD and the superintendant...we have a mtg tom. afternoon...the super was fuming about students names being released...confidentiality clause with students that could be a lawsuit...blah blah blah...my stance is I am going to support the coach...in the fact that he is a great coach...he is skilled and passionate about the game.. I want him to know that speaking for myself...we just need a better communication route than 17 year old Captains passing on info...
For example...yesterday was a team dinner...the only reason I knew what time it was is because Chad and I paid $35 to help fund it...Treyner got a text from the main Captain in the morning - saying it was at 5:30 and to be there on time...well it was at 5 - not 5:30 and kids were late - restaurant pissy because they have food cold now...(was a spaghetti dinner) looks bad for a team to be late to a community supported dinner etc...many rest. donated 100% of the food costs for their dinners...and you know that buis. owners in a community talk...
The coach has a website with no info - we as parents asked to help out developing a call tree etc...but he wants full control...yet...then that meant no pics for the team...because he made the decesion he did not feel that it was needed...well gues what..I have a darn pic of my kid in every sport he has played...and now..his senior year...I do not get one caus you did not think it was important...that pissed me off...every sport gets them...he should have aske dthe parents...now he is saying that he will take pics...and sell us DVD's at the end of the year...so we will get to give him money rather than a photographer...
One man cannot be all to everyone and he needs to understand that and accept help...
I also feel that he did not think through the proccess when he was talking to the press about how it would be read by the community... when he is quoted in the paper as saying..."It is the best we have ever looked" and then the paper says that a field player was the goalie...and that person had the first shut-out of the season...it looks and reads horrible....Treyner felt like if that was how the coach felt...why is he on the team - let him go back to football...
Treyner has spoken to the coach about that...and the coach said..."well it was the best we looked because it was also the worst team in conference we will play...we beat them 7-1 last year...."
Treyner told him that the second half of that would have been nice to have said to the reporter...the coach - looked at Treyner - and said - he was sorry - he did not realize the way it sounded....
So as far as we are concerned - the benching was lack of communication - but if that is the rules - than Treyner deserved to sit out a game...no biggie...my issue is the communication with the newspaper...bad mouthing kids to the media...(he was heard telling the radio station - which they then repeated on air - that the kids were not dedicated to soccer and the team because they missed practice...) that is not fair and not okay....
Unfortunatley - the big drama is just unfolding - and I am involved by request of the Super...but I will not say anything to jeopardize the relationship Treyner needs and will have with this coach - it is beyond my control though - and the coach knows I did not initiate it...
You were totaly right in the fact that Treyner did need to handle most of this on his trerms - he will have run-ins and misscommunication in jobs, soccer , marriage etc...for now till the day he dies...so evading it does not teach life skills...
Okay - that is the update as I have it - painting at the house - my arms are killing me...but it is a goood workout!
3 months left....till Dec trip...does anyone have their flights booked yet??? Need to get on that one!
