In Search of my Body...Not The One I Ate.. #4 "Inspiring Others... 1 Tiara at a Time"

I just try to get as many of my calories from "bulk" foods as possible. Fruit, veggies, etc. fill me up and make me less hungry and less likely to want more food. I do drink alcohol sometimes, though, and count it, and that is likely worse for me than juice or milk, but I am honest as to the reasons I am ingesting it.

I think the point that E and I were trying to make is that if you can find acceptable alternatives to higher-fat stuff, it will benefit you in the long run. If the alternative isn't acceptable, then moderation is the key. And almost any weight loss/maintenance program advocates fruit over juice, even the no-sugar-added kind, because of the fiber and bulk and extra nutrients that you get from the real thing.

As to starvation mode, sure, your body will slow down. But the calorie deficit that you have created will still mean that you lose weight (and yes, I have researched this). The rebound effect, i.e. that you have slowed your metabolism and that if you binge it will come on that much faster, I will give you. And no doubt, you are definitely short-changing yourself from a nutritional standpoint.

So super-low-calorie (under 1000) is really not the best way to do it, though, 1200 is about as low as you should go. I track to 1000-1100 but like I have said before, I am assuming a 100-200 calorie buffer of a sprinkle of cheese here, a spray of cooking or butter spray there (which is NOT no calorie no matter what anyone tells you, it does add up).


And one more "tip" for today... there are a lot of things that I didn't like before I started a lower calorie diet, that I definitely eat now. There is something about being really hungry that makes food taste better!
 

Discovery Health BMR Calculator

I like this BMR (Basal Metabolic Rate) Calculator. That is the calories your body needs to exist each day.

I put my numbers in all 3 posted today. This one is the lowest output. I'm going with that. Cause I *want* to lose weight.

So I need to eat less than 1647 calories per day to lose weight.
 
Kat - I agree with the whole, if you are counting calories, get the best bang for your buck. I.E. foods low in fat and better for you. AND foods taste better when you are hungry. (Which means, I need to not eat 3 weight watcher bars in one day. Maybe I need to have 1 hershey bar.)
 

Ok, I go out and THIS happens?

First things first...

Amy, I love you. Will you friend-marry me? You are so my kind of girl. Lyz, Kat, E, no worries - you have already said yes. Did you know that? Well, yes you are stuck with me.

Kelly aka Bella - there is no better nickname then Bella, is there? Nope. It's the best nickname. Because not even the Queen gets Edward. And Prince Philip seems nice but he's too old. I love your admitting to the tin diving. I ate those ginger snap cookies today. Oh, yum.

Nancy - You are cracking me up. Seriously.

Paula - I am loving the spunk lately. Keep the kick A$$ coming.

Dawn - Milk. Hmm. Okay, in general I go for the most natural thing possible. If one has less calories but more additives, I choose the calories. I pick all our food by label reading. Serious label reading. I pick the food that doesn't have corn syrup - why is there corn syrup in BREAD, anyway - that has a natural sweetener over a chemical one. I look for molasses or cane sugar, for instance, and never buy things sweetened that don't need to be sweetened, like bread. Read your bread label sometime. Then try to find bread that's not full of junk. It's horrifying.

We drink organic 1% milk. I don't personally care for milk, but I have not met or read or found one doctor who can tell me why people need whole milk. And I did a bit of research on it. Primarily Emily drinks it, and I might have it once a week in cereal. But I do limit her milk drinking, preferring her to drink water and not fill up on milk. She's a kid, though, and tiny.

I do use real butter. I buy the best, yummiest brand out there, and enjoy it. I buy lowfat cheese, along with our lowfat milk. When we go out for the rare ice cream, I enjoy it full fat.

So my opinion is to enjoy full fat the food you eat occasionally, and make a lifestyle change to lower fat foods. This is what has worked for me.

And label reading. Seriously, read the label on your bread.
 
I use Heiners 35 cause it has 35 calories. I guess I have to read the label now. You guys are making me a new woman. Wait, that's why I'm here.

Liz - what brand of bread do you use?

Oh and lucky for me, I don't enjoy ice cream.

Liz - YES! Totally.
 
I use Heiners 35 cause it has 35 calories. I guess I have to read the label now. You guys are making me a new woman. Wait, that's why I'm here.

Liz - what brand of bread do you use?

Oh and lucky for me, I don't enjoy ice cream.

Liz - YES! Totally.

I have a list of breads I'll buy. Based on ingredients, calories, fat, fiber, etc. Mostly it goes like this: Read label. Anything besides bread needed ingredients, it goes back on the shelf. Then I look for calories, fat, and fiber, going for a good balance. There's two they sell at Costco, a few at the grocery store. It depends on what you have in your store. I just do the reading and buy it when it's on sale, two for one, and freeze one!
 
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Liz....of COURSE I said yes! Even though you haven't taken my calls in how many days????

OMG, today has been hilarious! I swear, one of the funniest days EVER on this thread.

Nancy--agree, you are ON FIRE in the humor department lately. Love it!

Kelly--love having you here. You fit in so perfectly! You are our brand of crazy! :rotfl2:

Paula--kicking a$$ and taking names! WORD, mother-f'er, word. :rotfl2:

Ok, the whole milk stuff...coming after I get the kids into bed. Only the girls, though, cause Riley doesn't get home from snowboarding till 9:30! On a school night! And it is a school trip!
 
I may have broken up with diet soda for now, but you all should know that I do watch 2 hours of the old 90210 everyday and I love to play video games. Most recently guitar hero. And we eat dinner in front of the TV alot.

We have the tv on during dinner also. But the old 90210 :rotfl: .

Since someone has to do it, just wanted to let you know that it is about 80 degrees here right now...:rolleyes1 Love January in FL.

Cruel!

Nancy - I am thinking of setting a trap for the tin bandit. Every week, new goodies appear. I will find them, and when I do they will rue the day they ever refilled the tin of sin!

:lmao: (Is it sad I wish I had a bandit filling my tin of sin?)

Wow... does that makes us cool? Or lame? I think I am going to go with cool. :cool1:

Honestly Kat, more lame than anything. But I DON'T care. I'm excited.


What in the bloody hell (like my Brit reference Kel?)

:lmao:

Sort of random question, Are fastpasses pretty much a necessity to get on TSM? We haven't been on yet so it is like the ONLY must do on my list for this trip aside from finishing the 1/2. The weekend we were there in early December the wait was 100 minutes and fast passes were long gone!! :scared1: :scared1: The only morning extra magic hours are the day of the 1/2.

Amy - fastpass necessary. And don't skip it. It's so AWESOME! I'd fast pass it then go back at night like Paula suggested.

Just a warning...I'm going to throw a whole philosophical dialouge at you all - probably not until tomorrow, because I have a meeting tonight....just something to make you think a little...

Hmmm interesting.

He swears he is more coordinated than the rest of the world and therefore has trouble with obstacles due to his cat like super powers. :sad2:

Sounds like a man.

Tomorrow, I have to clean my house as the cleaning lady has a virus and she is down and out again.

Cleaning lady down! Oh no.

Is anyone else as excited as I am that the new season of Biggest Loser starts tonight? :yay:

I forgot. Thanks for reminding me.
 
Liz, YES! I will totally friend marry you!! :hug:

I did pilates today. It felt great. I had killer TOM cramps and honestly did not feel like doing anything, but am so glad I did. I actually felt better after. I am preparing to have Jillian kick my butt tomorrow. :scared1:

Thanks for the TSM suggestions. We really want to do it since it is something that Delena can go on. She seems to love the Buzz lightyear ride at MK.

Checked out sparkpeople some more today. I think I'll try this way of tracking first since it is free. Honestly, tracking is a bit overwhelming to me, and I am concerned I will obsess over it, but I really want to to do it.

Who hasn't shown up yet on here today?? LisaV? Amiee (she may have been here early? They are going to pass out when they see how much we have posted!!
 
I can't believe Maine allows that!

Ok, so I love Maine and all. But really, we do have our share of toothless, cousin-marrying, white trash. :lmao:

Liz, YES! I will totally friend marry you!! :hug:

Um, so what does that make us all? Polygamists? Groupists? :rotfl:

And YES, BL is on tonight and I am so excited. And pissed that I am missing half of it to get my kid. Oh! Gotta start the TiVo now.
 
Yay! Friend commitment!

OMG, watching BL. Is Bob sad when he sees how heavy they are? Because he looks sad. I don't know how you guys don't LOVE him. He's so compassionate. Jillian looks sad, too. Maybe she's plotting some evil training. :lmao:

Amy, I am very very impressed that you did Pilates on a TOM day. And I love the old 90210. Love it! Its so bad sometimes it's good. Remember when Jennie Garth aka Kellie, had endometriosis? I was yelling at the TV, I have that! I have the disease of the week!

Okay, Jillian. "When your lips turn blue, then you're going to pass out. But you're not going to die." That's so wrong! But funny.
 
:lmao: :lmao:
Ok, so I love Maine and all. But really, we do have our share of toothless, cousin-marrying, white trash. :lmao:

And here I thought all of those people were in Vermont??? :lmao: :lmao:



Um, so what does that make us all? Polygamists? Groupists? :rotfl:

Not sure....Polygamists I think.


And YES, BL is on tonight and I am so excited. And pissed that I am missing half of it to get my kid. Oh! Gotta start the TiVo now.
 
Yay! Friend commitment!

OMG, watching BL. Is Bob sad when he sees how heavy they are? Because he looks sad. I don't know how you guys don't LOVE him. He's so compassionate. Jillian looks sad, too. Maybe she's plotting some evil training. :lmao:

Amy, I am very very impressed that you did Pilates on a TOM day. And I love the old 90210. Love it! Its so bad sometimes it's good. Remember when Jennie Garth aka Kellie, had endometriosis? I was yelling at the TV, I have that! I have the disease of the week!

Okay, Jillian. "When your lips turn blue, then you're going to pass out. But you're not going to die." That's so wrong! But funny.

That is EXACTLY why I watch 90210. It is SO bad. When I was doing my senior year internship my roommates (one guy and one girl) and I would sit and watch the reruns on FX and make fun of it for 2 hours everyday. And eat Bagel Bites. Good times. Totally remember the endometriosis episode. One of our faves was "Donna Martin graduates!"
 
7 pages since 7am?!? Edit: ok, I can't count. Six pages. OMG! You guys are killing me. Can't wait to read 'em.

Really rough day at work. Will be back to vent. Hopefully it will be within an hour :rotfl2: .
 
Oh, I DO love Bob. I would just WANT Jillian for my trainer.

Well, thank God. I can get that. You would love Jillian. She would make me cry.

That is EXACTLY why I watch 90210. It is SO bad. When I was doing my senior year internship my roommates (one guy and one girl) and I would sit and watch the reruns on FX and make fun of it for 2 hours everyday. And eat Bagel Bites. Good times. Totally remember the endometriosis episode. One of our faves was "Donna Martin graduates!"

We speak the same language. Cheese. Bring it on! Which, btw, I have seen all of those Bring it On movies, too. My Tivo looks like a teen girl's.


7 pages since 7am?!? Edit: ok, I can't count. Six pages. OMG! You guys are killing me. Can't wait to read 'em.

Really rough day at work. Will be back to vent. Hopefully it will be within an hour :rotfl2: .

I will totally write you a pass. Shush. Don't tell them, okay? And vent away!
 
I'd love to join your group. I need all the support I can get to lose a lot of weight.

Hey everyone..time to join the best weight loss thread on Wish and make 2009 a year of change for you!

Please answer the following questions about yourself...and we will post them in one large format here that everyone can follow for a cast of charachters synopsis...

#1 Name/Family Me, DH, 2 DS's

#2 What you are the Most Proud of for the Year 2008 in terms of weight loss/excersize/healthy choices Nothing that's why I'm here. It was a bad, stressful year. I'm really glad it's behind me now and I'd like to move forward.

#3 What your goals are for 2009 in terms of healthy living Ultimately I'd like to lose 90 pounds and eat healthier. I really would like to cut down on the sodas

#4 What is needed from us to help you achieve those goals support and encouragement. With two little boys I don't eat right, I don't eat regularly, and I don't exercise. I also haven't had a full night of sleep in 4 years and due to that have a hard time sleeping, even if my boys sleep all night. Then i'm tired all day and don't exercise. I work from home and sit on the computer all the time that I'm not chasing the boys.

#5 A famous person you would love to have the body of...because each of us has a different body style and the realities that go along with it...I would love to have Catherine Zeta Jones' body, curvy but not overweight.

#6 A good food choice that you turn to to help ward off the munchies...usually fruit

#7 Why are you here/joining us...what do you hope to gain...or what have you gained....(not weight if that's the case! :lmao: )
I'd like to gain confidence. Dh laughed when I told him I was going to start walking and then jogging. He doesn't think I'll make it. He also doesn't think I can diet. I can't. I won't, but I'll do portion control, cut out the soda as much as possible, and exercise.

I'm looking forward to a great year. I have many goals other than my weight goal to achieve. Hope I can do it.
 














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