Im slightly confused.

[Ms.Squeakers]

Can I vent?
Its the weirdest story ever, so Ill explain it as best as I can, but if you don't understand what I mean, just tell me so I can reword it.

Okay-

So...yesterday, was one of the best days ever. Honestly, its weird how things work like that, the only problem was my Internet was busted so i couldn't come on and tell yall.

ANYWAY.
So today, I go into school all bright smiley, happy, NO ONE could bring me down.
WRONG.

ALL wrong.

Yes, So lets just say I had a slight disagreement with someone I really care about, and I don't know HOW to handle it. Its one of those situations where I think he is just afraid of me, or really freaked out by me. We are kinda friends, but I mean i really care about this guy (no matter WHAT happens) and I don't know why he would shove me away, and TRY to argue with me.

I don't understand it. I don't know what I did, he just randomly got this instinct to try and argue with me. Why would you TRY to argue with someone?

Does anyone understand where I'm coming from?
I don't know what got into him, but I really miss the days where we could just hang out and it wasn't such a big deal or even though people say we go out, why cant we just be friends. Even though we agreed on not listening to them, or letting it change our friendship... IT HAS.

I don't know what I did, but now he finds every thing to argue with me about.

At first I thought maybe because I was too clingy or something, but IM NOT. Ill say Hi at least once in a week or so, and I don't follow him around or anything so I don't understand it.



Okay VENT/QUESTION over
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[shellybellypolo]

Aw.
It's ok.


And to answer your question... I know exactly where you're coming from. I've been in that situation before. The guy ditched me in the end, and I don't think I could be happier now.

Don't worry. Some guys are jerks. Sometimes even the guy you're absolutely adoring is a jerk.

It's life at this stage for us.

 

[LoveGoofy91]

This same thing happened to me and my friend with this one guy. I was just friends with him[she liked him though, and he knew]. He would purposely start arguments and we thought maybe we should give him space, and we barely talked to him. I never im'd him and we would talk in school but he would initiate conversations. I still don't know what was up with him or why he was feeling that way, so I hope you figure this out and he stops. It's a pain when guys you care about start acting all weird and arguing for some reason.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

Thanks guys.
I felt like I was going insane. Its always a good thing, to know youre not the only one in weird tacky situations.

 

[BabyPiglet]

Maybe he is tired of liking you so much but you continuing to deny that you have any feelings for him.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

Maybe he is tired of liking you so much but you continuing to deny that you have any feelings for him.

I dont know, I really dont.
I dont even think he likes me.
Theres no way of knowing either...
I have to strain myself from feeling bad after saying "No, I dont like you like that" when I really do.

I mean everyone thinks we are going out, feelings can be VERY confused and mixed so there isnt a way of telling WHO he likes.

 

[BabyPiglet]

I dont know, I really dont.
I dont even think he likes me.
Theres no way of knowing either...
I have to strain myself from feeling bad after saying "No, I dont like you like that" when I really do.

I mean everyone thinks we are going out, feelings can be VERY confused and mixed so there isnt a way of telling WHO he likes.

Theres no way of knowing either...

There is.

If I were him, I'd honestly be frusterated with you. You flirt with him, you like him, he flirts with you, he likes you. But then you continually deny that you have any feelings for him. It's confusing a frusterating.

If I were you I'd tell him my feelings. That you DO like him but feel that you're too young to have a relationship yet.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

Would I bring it up casually like "Heh, uhm so remember how I said I could tell you everything? Welll... "

THEN.
END IT WITH A BIG
"IM SORRY"


Yeah, I would honestly hate myself too. He tells me not to listen to what people say to me and im thinking "Okay..."

Why do I have to make this so hard? Why cant I just tell him the truth!?

 

[jemberly_ann]

yeah, thats happened to me too. itll be alright

sometimes guys just randomly are weird. believe me, im one of the mature kids in the grade, the rest above me are all girls. just laugh in his face after a while, just like wat r u talking about? just act cool so...yeah.

 

[Kairi-Angel]

I had the exact same situation.
I ended up telling another one of my guy friends, and he totally understood me. So i decided to forget all about that guy because he was being a jerk etc. and my guy friend made me feel awesome about it. We ended up going out, lol, and thats where i am today.

So when you close one door and forget about something/someone, the other opens? Or something like that.

Hope everything gets better.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

EDIT :

Okay coolest scenario ive ever delt with.
He came up to me, and said he was sorry about the other day, and I acted like I didnt noticed "Why should you be sorry? All youve ever been to me was nice, and thats more then most people are..." "but it was totally rude of me, can we just forget about it?" "Forget what?" "I dont remember..."


Long story short, we are friends again. I dont know what was up with him on that day, but I felt like it was a really short phase, and I guess it was!

I knew it wasnt like him to act like that, hes just not like that, and I dont think it will ever happen again.