I'm In Love!!

[MissPotatoHead]

GUYS, "I'M IN LOVE!! I'M IN LOVE!! AND I DON'T CARE WHO KNOWS IT!!" - Buddy the Elf (from the movie Elf...lol)

I'm in love!! Andrew hasn't called me back, so FORGET HIM!! GIRLS, I FOUND THE SWEETEST GUY EVER &&& HIS NAME IS: ................
The thing is, he lives far away. (Just put it as really far away, like...another country far away). Him &&& I really really <333 each other, and...we both have a website thing where you can put 'the other half of you'. And we're each other's...HALVES!! LOL

Just wanted to spread the word I'm in love &&& don;t care who sees!!]

IN &&& THINKING I'M DREAMING<333HAHA
- STEPH -

 

[catycatcat4]

what are you gona do IF adnew ends up calling

 

[Sparx]

I know how it feels.

Being far away sucks.

Are you and he getting together anytime soon?

 

[CASTAWAYCAYCUTIE]

I know how it feels.

Being far away sucks.

Are you and he getting together anytime soon?

me too i know how it fells...my bf lives in the states and im all the way over here in lil ol germany...

hope it woks out it sounds like you two are good for each other!

 

[Sparx]

me too i know how it fells...my bf lives in the states and im all the way over here in lil ol germany...

hope it woks out it sounds like you two are good for each other!

Somedays I can feel every single inch between us, but others its like if I turn around, he's gonna be standing there. We're both in the states, but pretty far away. When you think about it, for all the time we are going to be together, these next few years of waiting seem like just a day or so.

You know you really love someone when you are hundreds and hundreds, or even thousands and thousands of miles away and they're still all you think about. I could have guys here if I wanted them. But I've got "amazing". Why settle for 'almost'?

 

[CASTAWAYCAYCUTIE]

Somedays I can feel every single inch between us, but others its like if I turn around, he's gonna be standing there. We're both in the states, but pretty far away. When you think about it, for all the time we are going to be together, these next few years of waiting seem like just a day or so.

You know you really love someone when you are hundreds and hundreds, or even thousands and thousands of miles away and they're still all you think about. I could have guys here if I wanted them. But I've got "amazing". Why settle for 'almost'?

thats exactly how i feel...yeah the bold especially i always am thinking baout him...

 

[HSMndLKfan92]

what are you gona do IF adnew ends up calling

First off, Congrats on falling in love!
Okay, anyway.

If Andrew does bother to call, he was definately too late. After all, it is his fault for not calling in the first place.

 

[Loves Disney]

Make sure you know the difference between "love" and "infatuation". Just because you think about someone constantly doesn't mean you "love" the person, though it might, it is a strong indicator of "infatuation".

Long distance relationships are the hardest to keep...especially if you can't see or be with the person for a while.

People generally don't know if they are in love until after a year of knowing that person...that is on average. Some less and some longer.

People can hold very strong likeness for each other, but you can hardly call it love if you never met the person. If all it takes is a single computer click to call it love...what the hell is this world coming to?

People can claim they "love" someone and be right, and sometimes they are wrong. But nonetheless people can say they very strongly like a person...most cases for online relationships until meeting the other person.

It is more common for a teen to say he/she is in love when that person is actually feeling the strong tingles of infatuation.

Infatuation includes the following symptoms:

Constant writing of the other's name.
Day dreaming about what it will be like the day you two meet.
Exchanging words of almost "poetic" feeling to each other over the phone or online.

There are more, but those are a few. There is a VERY fine line between Love and Infatuation and you guys can call it whatever you want, but I don't believe two people can truly love each other if they never even met. I'm sorry, call me old fashioned but that is what I believe. People who talk across the internet and then call it love from there are more than likely only experiencing strong *dare I say it again* infatuation haha. I don't mean to sound mean...but I think love is a sacred thing...yet people seem to be throwing that word around left and right like it means nothing.

This is just my $.2 though.

 

[Sparx]

Make sure you know the difference between "love" and "infatuation". Just because you think about someone constantly doesn't mean you "love" the person, though it might, it is a strong indicator of "infatuation".

Long distance relationships are the hardest to keep...especially if you can't see or be with the person for a while.

People generally don't know if they are in love until after a year of knowing that person...that is on average. Some less and some longer.

People can hold very strong likeness for each other, but you can hardly call it love if you never met the person. If all it takes is a single computer click to call it love...what the hell is this world coming to?

People can claim they "love" someone and be right, and sometimes they are wrong. But nonetheless people can say they very strongly like a person...most cases for online relationships until meeting the other person.

It is more common for a teen to say he/she is in love when that person is actually feeling the strong tingles of infatuation.

Infatuation includes the following symptoms:

Constant writing of the other's name.
Day dreaming about what it will be like the day you two meet.
Exchanging words of almost "poetic" feeling to each other over the phone or online.

There are more, but those are a few. There is a VERY fine line between Love and Infatuation and you guys can call it whatever you want, but I don't believe two people can truly love each other if they never even met. I'm sorry, call me old fashioned but that is what I believe. People who talk across the internet and then call it love from there are more than likely only experiencing strong *dare I say it again* infatuation haha. I don't mean to sound mean...but I think love is a sacred thing...yet people seem to be throwing that word around left and right like it means nothing.

This is just my $.2 though.

I totally agree with you.

"love" is misused and over used.

Long distance relationships are hard, and you both have to have a high level of trust and maturity. Its not fun, and its not easy. Even more so if you do really love them.

Infatutation fades away after a few months or so, while love gets stronger the longer you're apart.

 

[Loves Disney]

I totally agree with you.

"love" is misused and over used.

Long distance relationships are hard, and you both have to have a high level of trust and maturity. Its not fun, and its not easy. Even more so if you do really love them.

Infatutation fades away after a few months or so, while love gets stronger the longer you're apart.

That statement can be correctly and incorrectly used. When incorrectly used, it defeats the purpose altogether.

Say two people were together...physically (you know what I mean) and then they are pulled apart. That could be considered a longing for what you had and now don't. The love level, I think, stays the same, yet now other emotions are kicking in thus causing it to feel like you love this person even more...even though you love this person just the same. You start to feel other feelings for this person such as worry, longing, missing, and needing. Those together enforce the love emotion, not necessarily increasing "love" as it is.

If two people are apart, never met, and they continue to stay apart...I do believe the emotion becomes a sense of curiosity at its strongest along with infatuation (which I agree begins to diminish after a few months *the strongest months*- though comes back again). The emotion doesn't have to be an increased love feeling, but more a mixed feeling of need, want, curiosity, desire, infatuation (God I'm using that word too much lol), and longing. Love may be in there, but as I don't believe love being apart of a couple who never met, I try to leave that one out.

 

[Sparx]

That statement can be correctly and incorrectly used. When incorrectly used, it defeats the purpose altogether.

Say two people were together...physically (you know what I mean) and then they are pulled apart. That could be considered a longing for what you had and now don't. The love level, I think, stays the same, yet now other emotions are kicking in thus causing it to feel like you love this person even more...even though you love this person just the same. You start to feel other feelings for this person such as worry, longing, missing, and needing. Those together enforce the love emotion, not necessarily increasing "love" as it is.

If two people are apart, never met, and they continue to stay apart...I do believe the emotion becomes a sense of curiosity at its strongest along with infatuation (which I agree begins to diminish after a few months *the strongest months*- though comes back again). The emotion doesn't have to be an increased love feeling, but more a mixed feeling of need, want, curiosity, desire, infatuation (God I'm using that word too much lol), and longing. Love may be in there, but as I don't believe love being apart of a couple who never met, I try to leave that one out.

Yes. I could've worded that better. What I meant was, with infatuation, after awhile of not being with each other the curiousity will deminish and it will diwindle down. With love, that doesn't happen. You don't just stop loving someone because you've not seen them in awhile.

 

[Loves Disney]

Yes. I could've worded that better. What I meant was, with infatuation, after awhile of not being with each other the curiousity will deminish and it will diwindle down. With love, that doesn't happen. You don't just stop loving someone because you've not seen them in awhile.

Exactly.

 

[MissPotatoHead]

Are you guys sure it wil dwindle down, as you said?? I'm just asking bc this is my first experience...lol. I really really like Alex...we joke around together, we talk about interesting things, he stays up until 1 or 2am on weekends talking with me bc of the time difference.....this infaturation has a lot of sacrafices and as you guys said, it can be hard. I kindaa see where you are saying this stuff from, and I thank you so much!! I did that thread llllaaatttteeeeeeee at night where i was (well...it seemed like 11:00 when it was really only 9:00 - hey, i was tired!! LOL). I guess the only way you can put my feels for Alex is ... I really really really like Alex. But that like won't end......ever.

- steph -

P.S.- He told me he's going to WDW in August, so my family might go as well.

 

[Babyjustrun]

Well, yay you! xD Congrats. Hold onto it, it really can last.

I know a guy I've been talking to for two or three years, I have feelings for him, but he doesn't have any so I just kind of shove them away. He's very nice and we always seem to say exactly what the other was thinking. If I didn't have him to talk to over the past years I would have done some dumb things, he's kind of the person who keeps me sane. He's on the other side of the world though, with a 11 or 12 hour time difference.

 

[MissPotatoHead]

Well, yay you! xD Congrats. Hold onto it, it really can last.

I know a guy I've been talking to for two or three years, I have feelings for him, but he doesn't have any so I just kind of shove them away. He's very nice and we always seem to say exactly what the other was thinking. If I didn't have him to talk to over the past years I would have done some dumb things, he's kind of the person who keeps me sane. He's on the other side of the world though, with a 11 or 12 hour time difference.

Aww.....that's really nice!! Are you two ever going to meet??

- steph -

P.S. - Thanks for the congrats!! LOL

 

[Babyjustrun]

Aww.....that's really nice!! Are you two ever going to meet??

- steph -

P.S. - Thanks for the congrats!! LOL

No, not likely. I think he graduates in December or January and he's planning to go to an arts school and after he's finished there he's going to Aussie. I think. The closest he will be coming to me is Atlanta this March and that's not close for me.

 

[MissPotatoHead]

No, not likely. I think he graduates in December or January and he's planning to go to an arts school and after he's finished there he's going to Aussie. I think. The closest he will be coming to me is Atlanta this March and that's not close for me.

Ohhh...I'm sorry. There will be plenty of other oppurtunities to see him in your life if you guys keep in touch. Does he have your # &&& call you?? Or is the timing too different and/or your not comfortable giving it to him...

- steph -

 

[Starfire]

congratulations

 

[dopeygirl156]

I'm happy for you, and who cares if andrew calls you found someone better.

 

[MissPotatoHead]

I'm happy for you, and who cares if andrew calls you found someone better.

YES I DID!! LOL

- steph -