Conck.....I hear you on the cancer thing.. hate it. My DH has Pancreatic and we are gearing up to do battle again in September.. We are lucky he is still here as this one does not usually have a good outcome, we have been doing this for 3 years.. I hope your partner does well.. hugs to him and you.
And health insurance, someone pass me the soapbox.. I pay out of pocket as DH is now retired because he is ill, just for me.. drumroll please, 790 dollars a month with a $1000 deductible.. DH has Medicare and an extra policy which we pay around 200 for... so over a $1000 out of pocket for us.. I know it is all relative, but they need to do something and soon..
I actually want the healthcare plan that the US Senators and Reps have, that will never happen, but they have a great plan and we are paying with our taxes.