Marchand63
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- Sep 17, 2016
Ask me what you want. Phillips Academy, Andover Ma, same time as JFK Jr.
Ah then we honestly have very different definitions of really poor. I can't in good conscience say I was really poor just because I qualified for financial aid (pell grants, federal loans, etc).Really poor=qualifies for need based aid, grew up on (and possibly still on welfare). Most of it is that the state I went to college in was much more rural and blue collar than the state I grew up in. I knew a lot of people who were first gen students in college. That would not describe anyone at my high school. but again, I went to a private high school so that skews things.
Maybe not to you, but for this kid who grew up poor-ish in the Midwest, it's a part of life that I have never seen apart from how it's been depicted in the media.
I know someone who has kids in an exclusive private school. I wonder if her kids will get better jobs, get further in life etc. than someone who goes to public school. Otherwise, what was all that money for?
It isn't like it's depicted in movies. In many ways boarding schools today aren't much different than college except there's much more accountability for students whereabouts, there are curfews, and stuff like that.
See, this is something I wouldn't have known if you hadn't told me. For all I know it's somewhere between prison (as depicted in Dead Poet's Society) and a sexed-up free-for-all (as depicted in Late Night Skinemax movies that I wasn't supposed to watch). That's why I'm asking these questions.
Yeah, no. I never stood on my desk & shouted -Captain, my Captain nor did I ever indulge in an orgy or run from a serial killer.
Obviously everyone's experiences are going to be different, which is why I'm currently contacting alumni offices at multiple old-money boarding schools, trying to find someone who's willing to talk.
@Poohforyou , @Micca , and @tasha99 , @Westcoastwild if you are comfortable doing so, would you please give my email address to the people you know who went to boarding school? I'm trying to interview at least four or five people for my article. Just tell them "this guy thinks he's going to get a Pulitzer writing about boarding school, you might be able to help him." My email address is: aaronhomer522@gmail(dot)com
Thanks!
Just out of curiosity, which schools have you/are you contacting?
As I've said before here on the DIS, I'm a professional writer. I'm thinking of writing an article about what life is really like in exclusive boarding schools (think: The Facts of Life or Dead Poets Society) vs. how it's portrayed in the media. You guys get to help!
If you met someone who went to an exclusive boarding school, what would you ask them? So far, I've got:
- Is/was bullying (by peers, by teachers) a problem, or does the media play it up for drama?
- How was the food?
- Overall, was it a positive experience or a negative one?
If you have any other suggestions for questions, I'd love to hear them!
And, if you actually boarded at (or attended as a day student) an exclusive, Old Money boarding school, and are willing to talk about your experiences, please let me know so we can exchange contact info! You can be anonymous, of course.
Did being separated from your families and their support impede or enhance your studies?
As a professional writer, don't you find that interviewees respond more favorably when you've done your homework and ask intelligent questions?
Do you truly believe that I've started interviewing people with nothing more than "how was the food"?
As I've said before here on the DIS, I'm a professional writer. I'm thinking of writing an article about what life is really like in exclusive boarding schools (think: The Facts of Life or Dead Poets Society) vs. how it's portrayed in the media. You guys get to help!
If you met someone who went to an exclusive boarding school, what would you ask them? So far, I've got:
- Is/was bullying (by peers, by teachers) a problem, or does the media play it up for drama?
- How was the food?
- Overall, was it a positive experience or a negative one?
If you have any other suggestions for questions, I'd love to hear them!
And, if you actually boarded at (or attended as a day student) an exclusive, Old Money boarding school, and are willing to talk about your experiences, please let me know so we can exchange contact info! You can be anonymous, of course.
I have family that sent their kids to exclusive Catholic day schools, and they did it for two reasons: 1) the local bishop convinced them that the town's public schools were the playground of The Devil, and b) they were Capital-C Catholic and wanted their kids Catholicized as much as possible.