If you could have one day...

[cynsaun]

I would want to spend the day with my dad. He passed away when I was 19, and missed out on so much!

I would want him to meet my husband and spend time with his grandchildren.

 

[luvmarypoppins]

That would definetely be my sister. I would show her how much the ds have grown and she would meet little ds who was 3 days old when she died and didnt get a chance to meet. I would take her to disney again because we talked about it and also along for the ride would be her adopted daughter from Romania. I never got to meet her either. She was coming over but my sister died 6 weeks earlier so she is now with another loving family whom the agency refused to tell my mom about. I know its privacy, but would have given my mom some closure I guess. Wouldnt do it if all the memories got erased though. Those memories are much too precious to me.

 

[CindysGusGus]

I guess I would say my mom who died when I was 4.

I have no memories of her now so I guess walking away with none would be irrelevant.

 

[HollyJoy]

I would want to spend it with my Dad, and bring my girls with me. He passed away a year before my oldest DD was born. I miss him so terribly, that even to have one more day with him would be worth losing him again.

 

[Eeyore1954]

Definitely my mother. We were estranged when she died suddenly and I've always regretted not making peace with her before she passed. I'd start the day by making up and then spend the rest just talking -- catching her up on events in my life since she passed.

 

[Bob Slydell]

My FIL, who passed away 2 years ago in July.

I'd like to have one more round of golf with him, my BIL and DS, once he's old enough to play. We always wanted to have three generations on the course at the same time. We'll not get that chance now.

 

[always quiet]

My son Kyle, who was stillborn in 1993. I would love the chance to see how perfect he is, to hold him and rock him, sing him lullabies. I would have the chance to tell him how sorry I was that he wasn't with us and to reassure him that someday, we would be together again.

 

[~*Belle 2003*~]

My Dad, who passed away 6 year ago with Alzheimers.

I'd love the chance to just talk to him again before this cruel disease took over - he didn't know who I was for the last 2 years of his life.

We would often just walk around his garden admiring the beautiful plants and vegetables he grew, sometimes stopping to sit on a bench he made. He was very creative and was always making or mending things.

I would only do it if I could loose the memories of my Dad having Alzheimers.

 

[Cruise04]

If I could have one more day with someone it would be a toss up between my mom and her dad.

My mom because I didn't get to say goodbye and I would want to do that. I think that would help the hurt so much. And also so my brother could do the same. He didn't make it to the hospital in time and I know how very hurt he was because I got to see her but he didn't. (They thought she had a heart attack and rushed her from her home hospital to another one an hour away and we thought she was just going in for tests and to see what was going on. We had no clue she would be gone 2 hours later).

I would want to spend it with my grandpa because I would want him to see his great-granddaughter who has such a zest for life, just like he did. I also have so many questions for him that have surfaced over the past couple of months and now I have no one to get the answers from.

 

[onecoolmama]

my Grandmother...I miss her.

 

[mareb66297]

fo me it would be my brother who died at age 19 of leukemia. he was studying to be a priest. i would love to have one day with him to have him meet my husband and three kids. i was only 14 when he died, 20 years ago, so my memories are starting to fade now, so losing them to seeing him one more time would be ok. i miss him more than words can say... he was a great man.