You can request going to AP first on your dining rotation. Also, request that they seat you right next to a screen to make it easy. I think it would be totally cute to have Crush address your table and say something like "Hey lady in the (whatever color you are wearing...Ohh...wear either pink or blue) I know why you are wearing that color. Underneath, there is a little dude or dudette"
The interview at the show....When the theater starts to get full, Rona Rivers comes up on the big screens interviewing people as though they are on the red carpet. Its cute, she usually asks where they are from, how many cruises they've been on ect ect. That would be really cool. And, you would be revealing the sex to everyone, not just your family. The only thing...It may be hard if you're not all at the show. What if the kids are not into seeing the show? It's more likely that all of you will definitely be at dinner the first night. If you have early seating...Oceaneers isn't even open for secured activities yet. Lab open house ends at 6 and club ends at 9 I think?? So you pretty much know ALL of you will be and want to be at dinner.