My youngest is prone to excema so we use the HE Tide free and clear. It is pricey, but out HE washer really only needs 1 - 2 tbsp to get the clothes clean. I never ever use the amount they recommend as my washer was always full of suds after. So it may be expensive but my bottle lasts me forever and ever. I also use unscented bounce as a dryer sheet b/c of the sensitive skin in the house. My clothes smell clean but not perfumey. I hate strongly scented clean clothes.