HappyGrape
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Share your results. What works for you? how much happier & healthier you feel now? What is your best advise? How long did it take you?
Share your results. What works for you? how much happier & healthier you feel now? What is your best advise? How long did it take you?
Just browsing through the different sub-forums on this site and found this one. Just throwing my $.02 in.
My wife and I are both big into fitness and nutrition. My wife even more than me. First, the formula for losing weight, when you boil it down, is simple. Calories burned > calories in = weight loss. We also aren't believers in different trends or fad diets. If there are medical reasons why someone can't eat something, then that's different. Otherwise, the body needs a proper mix of proteins, good carbs and healthy fats. You of course can alter the ratio of each and have a low carb diet, as many do, but they don't get eliminated all together. Eat smart. Portion control, healthy food choices. It also doesn't mean you can't treat yourself. I still have a "cheat meal" once a week. But I have a solid, healthy and clean base of foods I eat.
I would also say fitness is a marathon, not a sprint. If someone is in poor physical condition, it probably didn't happen overnight, so the road to fitness won't be overnight either. Set more long term goals and use weekly markers to help track the progress toward that long term goal. Also, don't think that cardio is the answer to fitness. Doing pure cardio can tend to burn muscle, so while you may lose weight, you'll wind up with a high body fat %. Muscle burns a lot of calories, so adding muscle will naturally make you burn more calories. That doesn't mean you have to bulk up and be "ripped", that's a personal choice. But weight training should be an important part of fitness. You can include weight training without getting ripped if that's what you want.
The hardest part is getting started and just making it part of your daily routine. Once it's a normal part of life, it becomes very easy. Heck, today is Memorial Day, but we still went to the gym to workout, because it's part of our routine.
My wife is a wonderful success story. Before I met her, she said she always struggled with weight. Even in our early years of dating, she wasn't "obese", but carried extra weight. She has also given birth to our 3 wonderful kids, including a set of twins. About 10 years ago, she started taking control of her fitness. It started with classes at the local YMCA, but quickly turned into weightlifting and bodybuilding. She chose the path of getting ripped, but as I said, you can still be very fit if you don't want that much muscle. She's now preparing for her first bodybuilding competition this fall. My avatar picture shows her last summer, and she looks even better now. Here's a blown up version of that picture.
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Your wife has motivated me! Tell her i need her routine and diet plan asap I want to look that good after kids!Just browsing through the different sub-forums on this site and found this one. Just throwing my $.02 in.
My wife and I are both big into fitness and nutrition. My wife even more than me. First, the formula for losing weight, when you boil it down, is simple. Calories burned > calories in = weight loss. We also aren't believers in different trends or fad diets. If there are medical reasons why someone can't eat something, then that's different. Otherwise, the body needs a proper mix of proteins, good carbs and healthy fats. You of course can alter the ratio of each and have a low carb diet, as many do, but they don't get eliminated all together. Eat smart. Portion control, healthy food choices. It also doesn't mean you can't treat yourself. I still have a "cheat meal" once a week. But I have a solid, healthy and clean base of foods I eat.
I would also say fitness is a marathon, not a sprint. If someone is in poor physical condition, it probably didn't happen overnight, so the road to fitness won't be overnight either. Set more long term goals and use weekly markers to help track the progress toward that long term goal. Also, don't think that cardio is the answer to fitness. Doing pure cardio can tend to burn muscle, so while you may lose weight, you'll wind up with a high body fat %. Muscle burns a lot of calories, so adding muscle will naturally make you burn more calories. That doesn't mean you have to bulk up and be "ripped", that's a personal choice. But weight training should be an important part of fitness. You can include weight training without getting ripped if that's what you want.
The hardest part is getting started and just making it part of your daily routine. Once it's a normal part of life, it becomes very easy. Heck, today is Memorial Day, but we still went to the gym to workout, because it's part of our routine.
My wife is a wonderful success story. Before I met her, she said she always struggled with weight. Even in our early years of dating, she wasn't "obese", but carried extra weight. She has also given birth to our 3 wonderful kids, including a set of twins. About 10 years ago, she started taking control of her fitness. It started with classes at the local YMCA, but quickly turned into weightlifting and bodybuilding. She chose the path of getting ripped, but as I said, you can still be very fit if you don't want that much muscle. She's now preparing for her first bodybuilding competition this fall. My avatar picture shows her last summer, and she looks even better now. Here's a blown up version of that picture.
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