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My older daughter will enter college when I’m 45. My goal would is to have work be “optional” at that time. We are currently on track to achieve that by the time I’m 42 so things are going well. AND None of these figures assume my wife working more when the kids get older (currently a SAHM) Between ages 45-53 I could continue working to pay for their college. (And if I can’t make enough in 1 year to pay college tuition then we need to reconsider that plan for the girls LOL!)

I am sure this is already in your plans, but the less you make when they are in college then the less you pay. I would definitely read a few books on paying for colleges. Love that you are on this path!
 
Thanks...actually my DD is excellent at standardized test taking-to the point of being a National Merit Scholarship Semifinalist. The problem is, they narrow down Semis to Finalists with an application and her grades will take her out of the running. She is not so great at keeping her grades up so there goes several potential thousands of dollars out the window. When we were in school and had handwritten grades there would also be an area for notations. She's the kid who "has ability but lacks effort." Sigh...

Yikes. This is my youngest to some degree. He can have a difficult time motivating himself if he thinks something is "stupid" -- we have had several conversations about how being a student is like being an employee; if he doesn't want to do the work, he can find a different "job." And not in a punitive way -- just to make the point that by being a college student, he's essentially agreed to follow his professors' rules. I do sort of wish he *would* actually decide to do something different, at least for a while, because I think then he would have some more ownership/investment in the experience. Things have gotten better since he completed the general ed requirements and is focusing on courses in his major.
 
And FAFSA madness is only the beginning -- each college decides what they will do with the FAFSA data, and then many of them will request more of their own data.

My favorite part is when they ask how much your mortgage is and what the house is worth to add a portion of that amount to your contribution ... ummm no! It is like we are being penalized for living in a house for 16 years.
 

My favorite part is when they ask how much your mortgage is and what the house is worth to figure to add a portion of that amount to your contribution ... ummm no! It is like we are being penalized for living in a house for 16 years

I know...um are we supposed to sell our house? It doesn't help that we have no mortgage and the value has gone up (IRL those things are good but not in FAFSA-land!).

He can have a difficult time motivating himself if he thinks something is "stupid" -- we have had several conversations about how being a student is like being an employee; if he doesn't want to do the work, he can find a different "job."

Painfully familiar. The only AP test she hasn't received a 5 on was the one where her teacher was "creepy." So she doesn't do well to punish him? I just don't understand her some days. Since I doubt he receives merit pay based on his students' performance (our county is way too poor) pretty sure she just cheated herself. Nose, spite, face. It's a thing here :rolleyes:
 
1. Do not cancel, EB is not refundable I believe, I think you have to call in to get the reservation changed, someone else will likely know more as I have never used EB.

2. not sure on this.

3. no
Agreed on 1 and 3 :) Also not sure on 2.

I am sure this is already in your plans, but the less you make when they are in college then the less you pay. I would definitely read a few books on paying for colleges. Love that you are on this path!
Yeah - it seems like a formula that can be “gamed” to a small extent by the early retiree. Now that would be a hilarious conversation with boss/coworkers...I want to cut my hours back and make less so we can afford to pay for the girls college LOL! (I realize it actually wouldn’t work that way, just making a joke ;))
 
I think we’re up to 8”. My son is outside now shoveling the deck because the snow is too deep for our fur baby!

At about 10” when I took the dog out just now! He’s a golden retriever so I was having to yell at him to get out of our creek :rolleyes:

Pretty sure you lost points today. Quick, go shovel your neighbor’s walkway ;)

Ha! We were up to 6 episodes when we switched to The Great British Baking Show. Hopefully my neighbors let it slide since their driveway is about a half mile long haha.
 
My favorite part is when they ask how much your mortgage is and what the house is worth to add a portion of that amount to your contribution ... ummm no! It is like we are being penalized for living in a house for 16 years.

I know...um are we supposed to sell our house? It doesn't help that we have no mortgage and the value has gone up (IRL those things are good but not in FAFSA-land!).
I know these comments are slightly tongue in cheek but I do believe the goal there is to prevent people from gaming the system by placing all of their assets/net worth in a home. It also then doesn’t penalize people who purchase a simple or modest home and choose to have greater cash and investments as a result.

Yet you could turn around in the same breath and say people can do exactly that with 401k and IRA. (Although I acknowledge there is a difference between retirement assets and your home)
 
If they are revoking APs it's most likely they used the AP discount to buy the item for the purpose of reselling which is against the terms of the AP/AP discount. I can't imagine they are wasting time on someone selling impulse souvenirs, but some people make a living buying things in the parks and then reselling them for markup online. It's most likely people with a history like that who are getting targeted.
Oh I see. I didn't even think about ap getting a discount. Thanks for clarifying!
 
I’m a sub so I don’t really get a retirement fund unless I long term sub and then I get salary pay with retirement money included.

Is it hard to get a teaching job where you are? We are desperate for teachers in our district b/c it is high income and therefore hard to fill jobs.
 
Thanks-we know we're not eligible at all for need based and if DD hadn't blown her grades last semester (junior year) merit would have been much more promising. Fortunately I saved during my working years and my DH (who is not her bio father) will kick in what I lack. Loans aren't an option (in my mind) until she's doing postgrad work. TBH, knowing we're not eligible for aid makes the FAFSA a big waste of time...wish we could bill for it :rolleyes:

yeeesssss! Why do they make us fill it out!?
 
I’m just catching up today, but I’ve got a lot of off topic comments on the college stuff.

One thing I’d really recommend is cast a wide, wide net. My daughter ended up at a great school that she loved, but I wish she had applied to twice as many schools. The aid packages varied so much.

One of the things that helped us was we found a book (unfortunately I forget the name....think maybe it was a Petersen’s Best Colleges in the northeast?) that listed the % of need met by each of the schools. I think you can also find out this info at the individual school websites, but it would be a bit time consuming. The school she ended up at met 100% of their calculated need (it no longer does, but it still meets a very high %). This is really, really important if you’re on a tight budget. In the end, one of the schools she was accepted to expected me to contribute over $20000 a year, in addition to loans, because loans are considered aid. And our state flagship, which gave her free tuition due to her class rank, would have cost about the same or even a little more than where she ended up due to their high fees, room, And board. So my point is, I guess, you just never know how things are going to play out.

Be aware that a good many of the schools that tend to meet a high % of need require the CSS, which drills down a lot deeper into your finances. And if you’re divorced, as is the case with me, and your ex refuses to fill out the paperwork, those schools will be off the table.

And I second or third the advice to take both the ACT and the SAT. My daughter did significantly better on the ACT, which is not as commonly taken as the SAT around here. Just double check that your guidance dept. does not put both on transcripts if you request them not to! (Yeah, I’m a little bitter. Found out after the fact that my daughters high school, despite assuring me they’d only use her ACT scores, put both on her transcripts.)

And look into the profiles of which students get merit scholarships. Your student might be in the running at one school, but not another. Another real life example: My daughter just finished a three year grad program that would have been $90000 plus (yikes! No way!) just for tuition in state. We did a lot of research and knew she had an excellent shot at getting an in state tuition scholarship at Texas schools. She did, and even though she had to keep her fingers crossed the last two years that the Texas legislature would re-approve the program, it would have been a good amount of savings even if she had had to pay out of state tuition her last two years. The total tuition cost of her program ended up being $30000 for three years. That just astounded me! Most people just assume that their in-state school will be the cheaper option, but that’s clearly not always the case. And neither is public vs private school, because public schools don’t always have money for scholarships.

Gosh, sorry I wrote a book here. Just one more thing—— you people to the south of me can KEEP your ❄️ down there. Not ready for another storm here just yet.
 
Be aware that a good many of the schools that tend to meet a high % of need require the CSS, which drills down a lot deeper into your finances. And if you’re divorced, as is the case with me, and your ex refuses to fill out the paperwork, those schools will be off the table.

The CSS is painful, for sure! I think of DD's 11 applications, 8 or 9 required it. Of course her father has yet to fill it out so she might have to settle for an instate school that doesn't require his input.

Blasphemy, obviously your children will attend colleges that take credit cards for tuition for minimal fees.

:rotfl2:Fortunately more and more are-I keep rooting (if she doesn't go in state for free) for an out of state state school since they tend to accept credit cards vice her top choice which does not. Of course I could always learn how to use Plastiq...
 
Tink1970, you’re in Florida, right? It amazes me that states like Texas, Florida, Virginia, etc. have such good, inexpensive schools, while here in Connecticut, all we’ve got is very expensive or not very good.

ETA: Huh. I think I stand corrected. Virginia and Florida are not as inexpensive as I thought. I believe, though, that some of the states reduce tuition for good students? I thought I had read that somewhere. Only valedictorians and salutatorians get free tuition here in CT, and room, board, and fees are more than tuition.

Here’s the average cost of attendance I looked up real quick just now.

UVA. 29,572
UCONN 29,302
FSU 22,071
TWU 18,402

The last one puzzles me. It’s the Texas school my daughter attended, but I know she only paid around $10 grand a year. Oh, duh, that figure includes room and board. Daughter was in grad school, so lived off campus and only paid tuition to school. In my earlier post, though, that $90000 I quoted was also JUST tuition. Craziness.
 
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Calling Southwest experts.....

1. I have a res booked with points and Early bird attached. What is the process to change the reservation? How do I transfer the EB to the new res, or do I just cancel for a refund to the credit card and repurchase on new booking?
For res booked EBCI, YOU MUST call SW to make changes since the EBCI is non-refundable.

2. With the Priority cc can the $75 airline credit be used to buy a gift card, or only just for booking a flight?
I don’t have the CC but this is the info I found.

Second key note: The terms of this credit do not exclude gift card purchases. Even if you don’t intend to fly one year, it looks like you could still buy a gift card to take advantage of your credit. From
https://frequentmiler.boardingarea.com/new-southwest-priority-card-better-than-the-premier/
3. Can a res be booked with BOTH cash and points?
Unofrtunately not. It either one or the other.

Response in the quote.
 
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