Hey, we have $127k!

I can't wait to teach our future children about money. I've got some friends like that too. Late 20s now. Or at least they were, but we haven't discussed that stuff lately now. A few years ago my friend and I planned a trip to London and Paris, starting a year out. I ended up spending $4k for a 12 day trip, with splitting the hotel room. I had estimated things out and shared it with her, and made myself a savings goal of $5k for anything unexpected. She bought a few more gifts than me but otherwise her spending
during the trip was about the same, I'm not sure what she spent on things
for the trip because we lived in different states at the time. She lived at home and her only monthly bills were $200 to her parents for her share of phone bill and insurance, and her $150 car payment, and she worked full time. So when I visited her a few weeks before our trip for some last minute planning, I was shocked when she told me that she had refinanced her car loan and added $2k or something to it to pay for the rest of the trip. And on the trip, the hotel was going to split the charge between our cards for us, and hers got declined for the $700, so I paid and she transferred me the money. Same with our flights, which were $1800. But hey, I had my new Barclay Arrival and got to earn 2x points on that stuff! That was my first travel card and I felt so fancy
Growing up we would occasionally have electricity, cable, phones shut off for a few hours when my dad forgot to pay the bills. He was in charge of all of the finances. When I got out of college and moved home for a bit, I started seeing the cell phone bills... he was always 3 months behind, and when shut off day would roll around he'd call up and pay one month plus the late fee to keep it from being shut off. My family wasn't hard up or anything, there was really no sensible reason for that. That was when I stopped listening to my dad for financial advice and hit the internet.