It is such magic when all of the school breaks line up- I think you might regret letting that pass by. Ugh, and Disney in the summer, with the heat and masks and an altered experience, could be really disappointing.
Our fam has been twice since the pandemic, and it’s a different experience, but it’s not a “full” experience. If you love, love the dining experiences, parades and fireworks, you’ll be disappointed. If you are okay with mini, impromptu parades, abridged dining options and no fireworks, I think you might find your family enjoys the pandemic version of Disney. We like that people aren’t on top of our group- the wait times have been good, and it’s just been a bit more relaxing.
As you look at flights, Southwest has been offering some good deals. If Frontier is in your neck of the woods, they are also offering status match, which could make those flights really inexpensive.
https://www.flyfrontier.com/myfrontier/status-match/?mobile=true
Good luck- I’m sure you’ll make the right choice for your family.