afan
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Yep, she was moved from Baylor. I was not happy with that decision either but I have no say and they would never listen to my thoughts on it. She was moved to Baylor once she was stable in ICU. FIL was sold on it being the best place for her but I think once she got there, they were pushing her pretty hard and she didn't like it. She suffers from depression as well so I think that was playing a part. She always feels everyone is out to get her so I think maybe when the staff pushed her, she felt attacked. Said they 'were abusing patients'.
Also, it's pretty far from where they live and my FIL wasn't able to be with her as much (since still working FT). She wanted to go somewhere 'gentler' and he wanted her closer so they got her moved. Probably a very bad decision from what I know about Baylor.
That's rough all the way around and an example of why I think hospitals and rehab places, and really anywhere, needs to treat the whole person and not just why they are there. It wouldn't have been located closer to home, and maybe they did do this and it didn't help/work, but if they'd just have spoken with her about it all and figured out how best to work with her to be able to gently push without forcing or making it a bad thing. Rehab is never fun and you'll get out of it what you put into it and I hope the new place isn't too gentle. My great aunt had to have two different knee surgeries because she didn't properly rehab the first time, meaning didn't do anywhere near as much as she was supposed to. Part of that is just getting old and stubborn I'm sure
