@GlamMistress - I was just coming back to say something like
@bernina's last words - if it helps- keep posting, we are listening. I think sometimes it's not what we say back to a person that helps, more so that the person can express their confusion, loss and sorrow. It's like how can this happen? Last week you were getting ready to go to Vegas and this week your long time friend is just not here anymore? It's so not fair, but so the way our world works. Nothing is perfect and nothing stays the same. That's when we hug the ones close to us that we were getting testy with a few minutes ago and learn to value the gifts we have. Sorry if I'm rambling.