Wow, got hubby to do an about face on opening a new card. I was picking his brain on what he wanted to do for the next card(s) so I have a goal to work towards. I discussed a few options and floated the CIP out there trying to convince him we could do 5k if we plan it right. Met with resistance, which I wasn't surprised, but got more surprised when I started getting resistance about opening ANY new card at all. I know he's tired of all the CC talk and he goes through phases where I know when to back off and when I can bring it up again, but he also knows how much the points and banking game has gotten us already. Literally we would not be able to do this Alaska trip in Sep without CC points, just not even feasible to pay cash for all that we wanted to do even if we wanted to now. So when he just recently brought up that he didn't think it was a good idea to open up another card because he's afraid we're spending money just to get the points, I was floored!
First, because I haven't done that! I can't speak totally for sure for him, but if he did it wasn't anything big that I'm aware of. I pointed out that the only thing I thought we bought that we didn't need to was the refrigerator. I could have bought a few more parts and had it repaired and it'd probably be fine for a few more years. But he's never liked that fridge and I think he used it as an excuse to pick up a new one (which he does like, thank goodness! spent just a little more than I planned on it but he likes it so that little extra was worth not hearing about it again

). But it wasn't outrageous and we had the money to do it In the house maintenance fund, so we did. Second, because I thought knowing that most of this upcoming trip was paid for with points had really turned him! He was much more receptive to the whole game after I showed him some tangibles - like that First Class return flight I paid all of $120 OOP for. He was impressed with that and it was a load off knowing we didn't have to pay cash for that kind of flight. I mean, he opened 5 new cards in one year (and 3 of them were business cards) to make this happen! I really thought this was over since I've been planning this trip for him anyway. This was one of his bucket list destinations, and while I am excited to visit there too, it was really all put together as a "cold" vacation for him as he enjoys that more than sunny beach trips. Ugh.
However, I'm happy to say that logic won out

I just got a text from him asking if I had decided on my next card yet. I said no, but asked why? He came back with "Just wondered. As you said it is money we are spending anyway. As much as I hate new cards, it sort of seems logical."
I'm ignoring the "sort of" part right now and declaring a victory... again... for just this battle... I don't think I've yet won the war.