Wow, y'all are awesome! I have no doubt she's going to have the surgery if the ortho wants to operate. I was told when she was diagnosed by the cardiologist at Auburn that her life expectancy was 2-6 years (she was a year old at the time) and to keep her quiet, calm at all times and away from other pets and children. Well, I've embraced the quality over quantity mantra, switched vets because they wouldn't operate on her entropion and she's now 6 1/2 years old. She's a fighter and a survivor and if she dies on the table or post op because I'm trying to ensure a better quality of life then that's what happens. Thank you for your kind words of support, it's going to be a stressful week until the consultation and then if surgery is scheduled, more stress.
I appreciate the CC suggestions. I think I actually got approved for the Barclay AA Biz (not immediately approved, then received an email with congrats) so that could be $1000 (sorry
@wendow!). I'm holding out for DH's recon with Chase to go well, then if that doesn't work, he might "need" a citi AA biz.
@WVMomof3 -so sorry to hear about your cat --the older they get the harder the surgery decision is, for sure.
@Judique -sorry about your cat, too

...I think DD leaving the nest is making me somewhat more emotional and prone to spending money on DDog.
It's always easy to second guess yourself but it sounds like you wanted to make life better for kitty.
@platamama @elgerber @palhockeymomof2 -thanks for the kind words of hope!
I hate to agree with
@SouthFayetteFan just on principle (LOL!) but this really is a great group of people and I'm happy to interact with y'all daily (drinking my diet dr pepper). I so appreciate your kind words.