I have 'love' problems...

[KingdomHearts1991]

Ugh! I have a real problem... well, not really. I have a crush on this girl, and she hates me. I say 'Hi' to her, she says 'Robby, GO AWAY!' Does ANYONE have any suggestions BESIDES don't love her anymore? I will be thankful for any suggestion. Why does it HAVE to be Amanda to be the one I love and in return, hate me!? She won't even talk to me . PLEASE, respond to me...

 

[disneyangel7488]

Tough situation. No offense or anything, but it sounds like you may be bothering her sometimes. Hopefully this may be the case, and that she does not actually hate you. I don't know what it is you do to bother her, but try to stay away from her, but not so much that you're ignoring her.

 

[KingdomHearts1991]

thanks disneyangel7488...but the staying away from her won't work, because I sit next to her in Math and English...but, I'll try it anyways...

 

[daughter_of_amid_chaos]

How old are you?
Maybe if she knows you like her so much you're freaking her out a bit.

 

[KingdomHearts1991]

Ok...she DOES know I like her, and I STILL freak her out...

 

[WDWHunk]

Your still young, wait a couple of years and you'll have to beat the girls off with a stick.

 

[KingdomHearts1991]

ummm... in a few years, they'll be beating ME off with a stick..., regardless if they have a boyfriend or not!

 

[daughter_of_amid_chaos]

Well freaking a girl out is a bad thing...they will act as if they don't like you if you have freaked them out enough.
Don't let it get to a point where NO girl wants to date you because they know how you acted with thisgirl

 

[WDWHunk]

Originally posted by KingdomHearts1991
ummm... in a few years, they'll be beating ME off with a stick..., regardless if they have a boyfriend or not!

Check your PM's.

 

[Wick]

women cause nothin but heart ache, forget her dude.

 

[KingdomHearts1991]

Ummm... didn't you read where I said BESIDES not loving her?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?

 

[CruiserDew73]

dude, i know this isnt what you wanna hear... but you dont love her... its a crush. Youre in what 8th grade? You'll have plenty of people and chances of oppertunities. It'll be fine

 

[KingdomHearts1991]

oh, you're VERY encouraging! people, from now on, can you give me positive things please??? Oh, and I DO love her!

 

[WDWHunk]

Originally posted by KingdomHearts1991
oh, you're VERY encouraging! people, from now on, can you give me positive things please??? Oh, and I DO love her!

Okay man... well we tried to help you, but it seems like your too hard-headed to even think about what we said. We are teenagers with "experience" who have dealt with this sort of problem.

But think about this... she hates you now... what makes you think she's going to like you tomorrow? Your getting nowhere with what your doing... so, why exactly would you not try what we say?

Also, you don't "love" her, as you say you do. 12 yr olds don't love each other. That kind of stuff is in movies for a reason, it isn't real. You just have a crush, and thats great, but 12 yr olds aren't capable of understanding what love is, except the way you love your family, or a pet.

Think about it.

 

[teh fish]

you shouldn't immediately claim you love a girl even before you've even talked to her and it looks to me as if you can't even talk to her. If she doesn't want to talk to you, don't talk to her. You can't make someone like you.

 

[KingdomHearts1991]

but I HAVE talked to her before she hated me..... so... whatever...

 

[DisneyBlondie18]

Ok, hunny, im gonna be quite frank with you...im a girl whose gone through this problem...well actually IS goign through this problem...my ex-boyfriend still likes me, even though im dating someone new....he keeps bothering me, and so i finally started to ignore him...dont let it get like that. Ok? Let her know that you liek her and all, but DON stalk her whatsoever. She might get so annoyed to the point where runors circulate and random crap happens. DONT let it get liek that....and please take to heart what i've said, i dont want to see anyone get hurt.

 

[ariel_459]

ok, we're all teenagers here, and i think i can safely say that most of us don't know what love is and those that do have probably found out under very extreme circumstances! i'm a girl a few years older than you and beleive me, you're only in like 8th grade, you don't need a girlfriend!!! i know you've heard this a billion times but you have so many other things to be live for right now and you don't need to be tied down. also, girls might like guys that chase them for a little bit, but after a while we get bored and start tell them to bug off (as this girl is doing). if she doesn't appreciate the things that you're doing for her or the time that you're devoting to you, she doesn't deserve you. end of story.

 

[ariel_459]

also, i was once a person who said they "loved" a guy in 8th grade, and believe me, you don't know what love is, because i don't either. get over her.

 

[CorvetteZ06]

Girls can be scary, they make me do this..... but really, you can't let them get to you, some girls are nice, because I just had a girl ask me to the semi-formal coming up but I think what you need to do is go up to her, or call her and ask what you did to make her hate you. If she says something short and pointless like "because you're stupid," then you have to ask her why she tinks that. that worked for me when I was in a similar situation. But if that doesn't work I don't know what to tell you! But still, give it a shot, you never know!