I have a HUGE problem! I'm being bullied..

[TwistyMisty]

Hi,


so this girl at my school is like a bully, and she picks on me and me only! Just bc in 3rd grade i wrote something on paper and didnt show it to her. She has been bullying me for 3 years now. My dad said " next time she touches you, turn around and punch her so hard she bleeds, in the nose!" I told him i dont wanna get exspelled or something, he said he would sue the school if they exspelled me. All my teachers do is "think" about what they are gonna do, and then give warnings. They dont do anything about it! Im sick of it. Should I defend my self physically?

 

[pigletgirl]

Hmm....that's a toughy.

 

[GirlWithSpunk]

Hmm...
I think you should take this up with your guidace counselar or one of your teachers and speak very seriously and be mature about it.
That girl needs to stop and get a brain of her own.

And hitting the other person isnt going to help the situation, so I dont think thats a good idea.

 

[CastawayJ]

DONT TELL TEACHERS
THEY WILL NEVER DO ANYTHING

talk with your guidence counceler

 

[TwistyMisty]

I have tried MANY many TIMES. Different counselours, parents, teacher, and principals

 

[Babyjustrun]

She's actually attacking you?

I agree, go to the guidance counselor.

 

[TwistyMisty]

My dad said, if i hit her, she will never bother me again, and if she does, she will know what i will do.

 

[::Snow_White::]

Like everyone else said Guidance counselor.
Or maybe talk to your parents more and they could call her parents and they could work it out.

My mom tells me to kick some butt if they do anything too.
But ehh, I'm not the type to physically do anything unless they start it first or I'm really mad.

 

[GirlWithSpunk]

My dad said, if i hit her, she will never bother me again, and if she does, she will know what i will do.

I really dont think that will help.
The girls parents can get involved and you can get into trouble and that will show up on your records.

 

[Babyjustrun]

I would never get physical on them.
I'm just not that person, and I know my weaknesses, and one of them is anything physical.

 

[Babyjustrun]

I really dont think that will help.
The girls parents can get involved and you can get into trouble and that will show up on your records.

My old middle school, has a strict 'hands off' policy.
This kid once was being beat up, and his friend pushed the bully off him, AND THE FRIEND GOT DETENTION TOO. Because he was defending his poor friend.
Good lord. The vice principal said the kid could have raised his arms and ran. Like wth? That's not going to work.

 

[TwistyMisty]

Like everyone else said Guidance counselor.
Or maybe talk to your parents more and they could call her parents and they could work it out.

My mom tells me to kick some butt if they do anything too.
But ehh, I'm not the type to physically do anything unless they start it first or I'm really mad.

I'm not the type either, but I'll do anything to get her off my back. The parent calling parent thing, doesn't work out, tried it.

I really dont think that will help.
The girls parents can get involved and you can get into trouble and that will show up on your records.

Her dad is super nice, but her mom is evil.

I would never get physical on them.
I'm just not that person, and I know my weaknesses, and one of them is anything physical.

I would if i had too.

 

[VMK_MagicalLadee]

I'm not the type either, but I'll do anything to get her off my back. The parent calling parent thing, doesn't work out, tried it.



Her dad is super nice, but her mom is evil.




I would if i had too.

You don't.

 

[BandGeek911]

Getting physical is not going to solve anything, if anything...it's probably going to make things worse.

Talk to a teacher you trust.
Talk to a principal.
Talk to a guidance councellor.

If they do not do anything, get your parents to call the school. It's terrible for people to ignore bullying situations.

 

[Axel]

Don't get violent. Just walk away from her. Don't let her see that it affects you and she'll get bored.

But on a side note: Ryan's gonna teach me Tae Kwon Do so I can defend myself if anybody gets physically violent with me. That's the only time I would reccomend getting violent with somebody is in self defense.

 

[catycatcat4]

Man if i where you. I would tell her sorry *** off it all ways works for me.

 

[BabyPiglet]

My dad said, if i hit her, she will never bother me again, and if she does, she will know what i will do.

That's most likely not true. It would probably turn into an actual cat fight where you'd have to defend yourself. Are you ready to physically fight someone?

 

[TwistyMisty]

I've walked away from it before, she thinks im a wussy little baby. I'm actually tougher than i look. But im not a physical-fighting type of girl.

 

[BabyPiglet]

I've walked away from it before, she thinks im a wussy little baby. I'm actually tougher than i look. But im not a physical-fighting type of girl.

Okayyyy, and why do you care what a bully thinks of you?

Personally, I'd just ignore her.

 

[TwistyMisty]

Tried that, didn't really work out. My mom is teaching me to be a wuss, my dad is teaching me to be tough.