Miley Cyrus said:
Social life? I don't go to school to TALK to people. I go to learn about very cool things. I'm not into parties or dates, or anything that falls into those categories. If anything I don't need to get a soical life. I just don't... i'm tired of people using you, and everything else.
Loves Disney may not repete herself, but I will, and will continue to until you understand that an unbalanced lifestyle is unhealthy! We're not saying that you have to go and date people or go to parties but talk to people, go to a movie, to McDonald's for lunch for gosh sakes! You say that you want a future. The future will require you to work with people, even if it doesn't seem like it. I'd love you to name a job with NO outside contact. I like to think of life as one huge game of Survivor; you may not know who to trust but you have to follow instincts and put yours in someone or you'll get voted off. You have to not think that everyone is out to get you or it will shine through in your attitude.
And as a side note; if you think it would be fun to go to school all year, do it! Take summer classes and get ahead so that you won't have to take them later. You will have more time to...well, not enjoy being a kid... I wasn't trying to be mean before, moreso give advice, but now it's tough love.
here was my original post:
I actually like school too, don't feel badly. I'm a big nerd. I love seeing people who I haven't seen. The classes don't bother me either; it's the minimum 5 hours of homework per night, without any exageration. That and waking up to catch the 6:20 bus! Besides that, it's all good...and that I don't get to go on the Dis every day .
To clear up another point...Miley Cyrus: It's very possible to have both good grades and friends! I have never failed a test in my life, my lowest average ever was a 93 (which was gym...yes, it always brings my grade down...shut up all those snickering! Kidding, I can't help but laugh at it myself!), I am in all possible advanced classes, even those where I'm the only one in my year (another social aspect...hint, hint), AND I have unbelievable friends! I 100% agree with the previous poster that you need interaction in order to actually get anywhere. Besides, friends aren't meant to be pains to you, we call those people enemies. They help you get through things and vise versa. Helping friends out is an unbelievable thing! An example: My friend's parents are on the rocks. I am the only person besides immediate family who knows about this. Realistically speaking, there is nothing I can do besides letting him know that I am always there for the listening. He know he can trust me with this secret and help him through it because I have been through it too. Even if you go a day with out fabulous grades in school or a dull, slow day, you still go to bed that night feeling great because you helped a friend even in a small way. So now before I get WAY off topic, you need them, you really do, whether you know it now or not. When college rolls around and no social activity is seen (clubs, sports, volenteer work, etc), you will become second class to an 80s average student who does do these things, and that is a promise.