Temporarily, ignore the husband.
Don't confuse being thin with being in shape. Just ask anyone, male or female, who's thin and has high triglycerides or has had a heart attack. Have you noticed just how many obits are in your local newspaper for young people (30s and up) who are having fatal heart attacks?
My comments are from a strictly physiological standpoint. As we age, getting in shape just becomes more difficult because of altered metabolism associated with the aging process. Hey, I'm not making this up; it's available info in any good medical referenceor for that matter, the local paper. I don't know the husband, obviously, but the conversation, according to the OP, was triggered by observing some obese family, gasping for breath, who walked by them.
I, for one, and so far it seems about the only one, would rather encourage the OP to realistically evaluate and start taking even small steps to improve her overall health.
Don't confuse being thin with being in shape. Just ask anyone, male or female, who's thin and has high triglycerides or has had a heart attack. Have you noticed just how many obits are in your local newspaper for young people (30s and up) who are having fatal heart attacks?
My comments are from a strictly physiological standpoint. As we age, getting in shape just becomes more difficult because of altered metabolism associated with the aging process. Hey, I'm not making this up; it's available info in any good medical referenceor for that matter, the local paper. I don't know the husband, obviously, but the conversation, according to the OP, was triggered by observing some obese family, gasping for breath, who walked by them.
I, for one, and so far it seems about the only one, would rather encourage the OP to realistically evaluate and start taking even small steps to improve her overall health.