Well, yeah, youre thin. But, you need to work on muscle tone. From here up (hip bone), youre a rail but with no upper body strength. From here down, you need to reduce and tone. Your top and bottom are out of proportion. Youd be fine if you could just work on that.
These comments came while we were lying by the pool at Universal last month. It was the first time this year that I put on a bathing suit. The conversation started when an overweight family walked by, gasping for breath.
I have to admit, I was pretty bummed out even tho I knew he was simply telling the truth.
But I just dont have ANY time to work out. Im employed full time (6:30 am 3:30 pm). Then, when I get home from work at 4:00 its 100% kid time (homework, sports, etc), dinner, and general Mom stuff until I collapse in bed at 9:00. I dont even watch TV (whats American Idol? Survivor?? Desperate Housewives???) The work load is particularly heavy when DH travels (5 12 days per month). I cant do a work out before work cuz Im already getting up at 5:00 am.
I used to have a decent self image, but now thats in doubt. Heck, at nearly 41, I thought I was doing better than most women my age. Im 55, 118 lbs. My clothes are 50% size 4, 50% size 6. Now Im very self-conscious and almost (but not quite) ashamed of how I look.
Nevertheless, I am trying to improve. Im TRYING to make time for walks; and Im doing arm exercises as I go. Im just hopeful I can keep it up. Meanwhile, Im trying to deal with DHs comments.
So what do you think? How would you react to what he said? Thanks.
Kelley
These comments came while we were lying by the pool at Universal last month. It was the first time this year that I put on a bathing suit. The conversation started when an overweight family walked by, gasping for breath.
I have to admit, I was pretty bummed out even tho I knew he was simply telling the truth.
But I just dont have ANY time to work out. Im employed full time (6:30 am 3:30 pm). Then, when I get home from work at 4:00 its 100% kid time (homework, sports, etc), dinner, and general Mom stuff until I collapse in bed at 9:00. I dont even watch TV (whats American Idol? Survivor?? Desperate Housewives???) The work load is particularly heavy when DH travels (5 12 days per month). I cant do a work out before work cuz Im already getting up at 5:00 am.
I used to have a decent self image, but now thats in doubt. Heck, at nearly 41, I thought I was doing better than most women my age. Im 55, 118 lbs. My clothes are 50% size 4, 50% size 6. Now Im very self-conscious and almost (but not quite) ashamed of how I look.
Nevertheless, I am trying to improve. Im TRYING to make time for walks; and Im doing arm exercises as I go. Im just hopeful I can keep it up. Meanwhile, Im trying to deal with DHs comments.
So what do you think? How would you react to what he said? Thanks.
Kelley