How much money for a kid on a 8 week trip?

pocomom

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We're about to go cross country for about 8 weeks. I like to give the kids a lump sum before a trip for their spending money etc. it has worked well in the past to reduce the "gimmes". Typically I arrange opportunities to earn money before a trip, plus I set aside a little, and they have a coin jar they split evenly. Earning opportunities vary, by how much I want them to have and what is in the jar... This time there is not a whole lot, and this is a bigger trip then usual, but it will mostly be national parks and whatnot not Disney, What is a reasonable amount for them to have on the trip? I typically have them end up with roughly the same amount ( if one is more motivated for work they obviously earn more). My girls are 8 and 11, and their little brother is 3 but we of course help him with his choices....
 
We only take the standard length family vacation 5-14 days depending on the trip My kids usually take $10 each for each day of a vacation not including travel days. This money comes from their own savings. I do buy a souvenir for each of them. The choice of what to buy is their own with a few rules. They are not allowed to spend their money on food, drinks candy etcetera. We encourage them to buy useful items that will not languish in a closet. We also encourage quality over junk.
 
Sorry pocomom, I do not have an answer for you, but I just wanted to say the I am envious. ;) I wish I could take an 8 week vacation. I hope it will be pleasant!
 
What kinds of things will you buy, vs them? Is it for only "things" or for experiences, too? I have no idea of a number to suggest. I know some national parks have free range things to do but would assume they also have stuff to pay for, too. Are your kids the kinds that would want something from every stop (like a postcard or pen or something) or would they maybe buy one big thing for the whole trip?

I think I'd try to budget based on the kids personality, if that makes sense. You probably don't want them buying a $20 stuffed animal everywhere , I'm guessing. And maybe think about the "big" stops where they may want to buy something. I've driven across the country and there are a lot of small kitschy places along the way, and a lot of places that are nice to stop at, but I wouldn't want to take anything home from there.

So, no answer, but suggestions on how to think about it.

Have a great trip!,
 

What kinds of things will you buy, vs them? Is it for only "things" or for experiences, too? I have no idea of a number to suggest. I know some national parks have free range things to do but would assume they also have stuff to pay for, too. Are your kids the kinds that would want something from every stop (like a postcard or pen or something) or would they maybe buy one big thing for the whole trip?

I think I'd try to budget based on the kids personality, if that makes sense. You probably don't want them buying a $20 stuffed animal everywhere , I'm guessing. And maybe think about the "big" stops where they may want to buy something. I've driven across the country and there are a lot of small kitschy places along the way, and a lot of places that are nice to stop at, but I wouldn't want to take anything home from there.

So, no answer, but suggestions on how to think about it.

Have a great trip!,

Most everything we will do as a family, so it will be mostly for "things" which will include souvenirs, but probably some toys and extra clothing items as well. They are not big on trinkets, but when we go to Disney for instance they typically will buy gifts for friends and family, some postcards, couple of new toys, a t-shirt or sweatshirt and the rest they blow on the Lego store :) we will have space limitations too, in the rv with three kids and two dogs... So no giant teddy bears at least! Our youngest will have his birthday while on the trip, and our oldest will have hers shortly upon returning, so the kids will want to be able to buy things for each other as well. Mall of America is one of our stops so I'm sure that will pry some cash from the kid's hands :)
 
This isn't money for food, snack, or tickets to attractions, is it? We're just talking about souvenirs, right?

My vote probably isn't popular, but I suggest zero.

Yes, really. When our kids were toddlers we realized that souvenirs could essentially take over a trip. We want the trip to focus on the experience, on learning something or just having fun, on spending time with the family . . . but when the purchase of toys and such are involved, so often the kids become so excited about making their choices that they rush through the experience so they can get to the shopping. And then there were the times when the toy broke as soon as we got to the car, which was always a disaster. We tried limiting to one souvenir, but that was almost worse: With only one item to choose, the pressure to "get it right" was intense. We tried limiting by giving the kids money, but again, the problem of stuff overshadowing experience remained. And then what happens to the stuff when it gets home? The vast majority of it, although it was rather high-priced, doesn't become a much-loved item; rather, it tends to be tossed into the corners of their bedrooms and eventually end up in the Goodwill box.

So about the time our kids started school, we hit up on the NO SOUVENIRS concept. We let the kids know this new stand up front, and we encountered essentially no flack from them. They understand that they've been to more places than their friends, and they understand that we have not good but GREAT trips. They've learned to value that above bringing home yet another tee-shirt or stuffed animal.

Please understand that this isn't about the money. It's about maximizing the quality of your trip.

Since we made this decision, I've chaperoned numerous youth groups on many trips, and I've seen a positive difference in my kids on this subject. For example, not long ago I was a chaperone for a trip to the aquarium. The kids had a wonderful time looking at the fish, watching the guy feed the fish in one tank, calling each other over to see something great . . . until they neared the end of the experience, and the girls realized that there was a gift shop at the end of the aquarium. 50% of the kids instantly were DONE with the fish and hurried straight to the shopping, bypassing the last exhibits altogether. Most of the others gave the remaining exhibits only a cursory glance and set their sights on buying something. 2-3 kids out of the large group, my daughter being one of them, ignored the gift shop and continued to marvel over the last exhibits.

Another memorable experience was a several-day trip in which one of the girls in our group spent ALL her souvenir money at our very first stop, and then wailed about it long and loud when better options came available later. It's worth noting that our first stop, where she spent every penny, was a gas station.

I suggest that if you aim for NOTHING, you'll end up with just the right amount of stuff. You will see a little something here and there that's just perfect and unexpected, and you'll buy those things then.

If you're concerned about missing out on a learning opportunity dealing with money, that's a lesson that can be put into practice any week at home. Let them have some control over grocery purchases. Let them learn that store-brand this-or-that is the same as name brand. Give them X amount of money for their school supplies, and let them decide how to spend it. But don't trade your vacation for the accumulation of a bunch of trinkets.


Changing the subject slightly, we did a cross-country driving trip a few years ago, and it was wonderful. My husband and I agree it's the best vacation we ever took. Our girls were 15 and 12 at the time, and they didn't necessarily enjoy all the history at the time, but we interspersed it with plenty of water parks and other great experiences. Four years later, they still bring up things from that trip: Remember when we did the cookout ride, and Dad's horse bit Mom? Remember when we saw that great 4th of July parade at the Grand Canyon, and they sprayed us with water? Remember that hike in Grand Teton where we were so exhausted by the time we reached the top that we just laid on that big slab of granite for like an hour looking down over the lake, and we threw crumbs of our sandwiches to the chipmunks? Remember doing the buffalo safari?

What do they NOT bring up? Our lack of shopping for souvenirs.
 
Another way to get to an answer for your question might be: what items do you expect might make sense to purchase and where are your big stops. In other words, your kids might want postcards to send home to friends or to use in a scrapbook album. 10 big parks/stops might equal 10 postcards. Then, is it reasonable to want 2-3 t-shirts and a sweatshirt as momentos? What would the average of those purchases be? (When we went to Yellowstone, my daughter bought PJ pants with moose on them - wore them for a year straight til they were threadbare!)

So - 10 postcards = $10
2-3 t-shirts @ $15 each plus a sweatshirt at $25 = $70
Snacky stuff @ $1/day = $50

If you go at it like that, maybe you'll come up with a number that you feel is acceptable. AND, if you show your kids how you came up with that number, they'll get an idea of what they can buy over the lenghth of the trip without spending it all at once.

What a wonderful experience you all will have. We took many, many driving vacations as kids (military family living in Europe) and what great memories!

Have fun and be safe!
 











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