My ds is 4 1/2 mon 21 lbs and about 25 inches. I have the Graco safe seat. the snaps to the crotch were getting tight so we adjusted the shoulder straps to the highest adjustment. Now there is not enough strap give left to even get his arms in! There is no way I can come close getting him in. I called graco and they admitted that you loose alot of the strap when you use the tallest height adjustment. Has anyone else had this problem? Is there something that I am missing? I guess I just need to get over it and buy a bigger seat! It just anoyes me that the feature they provide seems to make the seat un- useable, there is no way you could fit a 30lb 32 in baby in this seat as graco claims? Any thoughts?