glass slipper girl
because the right shoe can change your life!
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For us convenience is huge so with little kids (ours are 4 and 6 and another on the way in October). We stayed off site on our first trip (a last minute trip Christmas week staying in my parent's RV and Ft. Wilderness was full so we stayed offsite at a campground about 10 minutes away). DH had been all about saying we will stay off site and save some cash for the trip we had planned for later that year. After 2 days of driving that 10 minute drive, parking, unloading the stroller then either waiting on a tram and keeping the kids from running off or going ahead and undoing the stroller and walking he was singing a different tune. It went from "why not stay at a Holiday Inn nearby and save a whole bunch" to "we are absolutely staying onsite, no questions asked." and "how much are these resorts on the monorail?"
The next trip we stayed onsite at the WL and he came home saying it was worth every penny and then some! Not driving is a huge deal for him too. At the time he was commuting over an hour each way to work every day so not getting behind the wheel for a week was a big part of vacation.
We like knowing we can get back quickly for breaks. When we were off site, the kids fell asleep during that 10 minute drive and would wake up when we'd get them out of the car. They had just enough of a power nap than when we were ready to rest, they were ready to play!
We like having our own space too but we have found that staying at a deluxe resort, we tuck the kids in and sit out on the balcony togehter and chat. We're all usually so tired that there is no desire to stay up late watching tv or anything. Everything we want to see is being Tivoed at home anyway.
It's not so much about our kids remembering the hotel, but about making the vacation relaxing and enjoyable for DH and I too. Of course now our kids are Disney resort adicts too. They are now 4 and 6 and will have a big discussion with you on which is better...the Grand Floridian or the Boardwalk Inn...is it more important to have the monorail or the really cool pool slide.
I'm a SAHM and we cut corners all year making that work and having money left over for savings and for fun stuff like vacation. We make sure we do not plan a vacation that we can't afford to pay for with cash. It's our week to indulge ourselves a bit and that is worth it for us.
We are pretty sure we will cancel our September trip as we have baby #3 coming in late October (SURPRISE! didn't know that when we started planning that trip!). We'll likely go in late January and bring baby with us so we'll need more space. We just discussed today that we could do an offsite home or we could do a 2 bedroom DVC villa. I gave DH prices and he said "you know how I feel about onsite convenience. It's worth the extra for the villa."

The next trip we stayed onsite at the WL and he came home saying it was worth every penny and then some! Not driving is a huge deal for him too. At the time he was commuting over an hour each way to work every day so not getting behind the wheel for a week was a big part of vacation.
We like knowing we can get back quickly for breaks. When we were off site, the kids fell asleep during that 10 minute drive and would wake up when we'd get them out of the car. They had just enough of a power nap than when we were ready to rest, they were ready to play!
We like having our own space too but we have found that staying at a deluxe resort, we tuck the kids in and sit out on the balcony togehter and chat. We're all usually so tired that there is no desire to stay up late watching tv or anything. Everything we want to see is being Tivoed at home anyway.
It's not so much about our kids remembering the hotel, but about making the vacation relaxing and enjoyable for DH and I too. Of course now our kids are Disney resort adicts too. They are now 4 and 6 and will have a big discussion with you on which is better...the Grand Floridian or the Boardwalk Inn...is it more important to have the monorail or the really cool pool slide.

I'm a SAHM and we cut corners all year making that work and having money left over for savings and for fun stuff like vacation. We make sure we do not plan a vacation that we can't afford to pay for with cash. It's our week to indulge ourselves a bit and that is worth it for us.
